Today I found my old smartphone that I used 4 years ago.
I stopped using this phone that year because it had started to having a poor performance.
I tried to turn on this phone this day and on that phone , there's still some application that I used at the time I used this phone.
One of those applications is askfm.
You know that application right ? I'm sure you know.
I opened that application and I saw there were some questions that have been given to me.
I read those questions and I found lot of interested questions.
Since I didn't play askfm again and this app is not trending again, I think it's good to write the answer on this site instead.
Here they are :
1.
Anon : You seems very busy at this time yeah ?
Me : I'm so busy fighting against this world.
2.
Anon : What do you gonna treat your friends on your birthday ?
Me : Actually I never treat my friends on my birthday. Am I greedy ? You’re free to have an opinion, but I have my own reason. I never celebrate my birthday because I don’t really like birthday, in fact it can be said that I hate it. Because it indicates that I’m growing older and that means my time to live in this world become more less. Also the biggest burden about it that we’re ran out of time to get our goal to become successful person in ideal age, whenever my birthday has come the burden is getting bigger to myself, that’s why I don’t like birthday, somehow I’m confused how can I celebrate and spending money for a day that I even hate it.
3.
Anon : What do you think about the close friendship between boy and girl ?
Me : I think sometimes a friendship between two persons who have different gender is more complicated than the friendship between two persons who have same gender. From the outside I believe that. It's true that there are lot of friendship between boy and girl even me myself has that kind of friendship. But it's true that this friendship can be like lot of people said. If the friendship appears on a group and involves many other persons, maybe it's easy. But if the friendship only involve one boy and one girl, I think somehow it can be more complicated than we think. Because there's a possibility that love feeling will appear inside that friendship and somehow it can give a big change of that friendship. More over, let it said that there's no love feeling that appear on that friendship, but there's still one more case of it, if one of that person finally has (his/her) love, there's a chance that the relation of the friendship can be a little reduce and somehow we can feel sad about that change. But there's only a possibility, in some people the friendship between two genders can be still very fun despite of those possibilities, I also has this kind of friendship and I also really like it because it's very fun and interesting.
4.
Anon : What will you do if your friend has a fight with (his/her) love ?
Me : I will not do anything, their problem is not related to me, that is their privacy thing, I will only give an advice if my friend ask for my advice and I know the good advice.
5.
Anon : What do you think if there's someone who isn't close and never talk to you suddenly chat you ?
Me : Maybe it's because there's something that they want.
6.
Anon : Do you prefer live your daily life alone or with someone ?
Me : Depend on who is the person that I spend my daily life with. I lived most of my life alone since 4 years ago and it’s lonely I said. Commonly we must think that it's always better to have someone to live with. I also think that it’s better to have someone that can be our friend to spend most of our time rather than be alone, because with that we won’t feel lonely and be happy because we have someone to talk and have good memory. However I also say that it’s better to live alone rather than live with a person who is very incompatible with our character. By a chance, I ever lived with someone for 8 months, I spend most of my time with him and it didn’t run very well. Two persons who have strong characters but also very contrary people, even though I tried to appreciate and get over the difference but it still made many very complicated time and moments. Now I’m living alone and I feel that my life become more easy and simple rather than living with him. It’s true that as a social creature we need other person to spend our time with, but not every person can be a person to fill our daily deep life, there are some persons that can be our friend but can not be our best friend or any other special relation. Living alone is quite sad maybe but living with wrong person is worse than living alone.
7.
Anon : What is the saddest part of loving someone ?
Me : Hmm, generally it must be when you loved someone, but (he/she) didn't love you back. However it can be much deeper than that. When you're loving someone but you're very far from (him/her) because there's no space for you to come closer into (his/her) side. All you can do is seeing (his/her) smile from a distance, you can not have a good relation with the person you love and can not have a time with (his/her) even only once. I think it can be very hurt. Love is like that , sometimes it lasts in love, sometimes it hurts instead.
8.
Anon : If you're asked to sing a song to the most precious person in your life, what song that will you choose ? and to who that you will that song :D ?
Me : Avici - The Night , It's interesting to sing one of my favourite song to my special person.
9.
Anon : What is your opinion about many girls who always want to wear make up every single day ?
Me : They want to make their face prettier, maybe because they think it's important. It's their preference and habit after all. Actually I see that as a make sense thing. Maybe one of the reason of wearing make up is to have good social life. Believe or not, a girl who has a pretty face will get more respect and can have big chance to get more friends.
10.
Anon : I'm confuse. Why my life is so different from my sister ? even we are siblings ?
Me : Every person has so much differences : difference character, difference situation, different condition and so many else, it's very normal to has a different life. I have a twin and our way of life is very different. We can not have a totally same life with other person.
11.
Anon : Do you love your bff ? Pap with your best friend forever !
Me : I don't have one.
12.
Anon : What is your favourite song to be listed on your wedding day ?
Me : wohoo what a question lol. If in the future I can have a chance to get married maybe I will choose Perfect - Ed Sheeran as my wedding song, the lyrics is so deep and beautiful. I really like that song.
13.
Anon : I already had a girlfriend, but lot of my friends said that she's not pretty enough and there's lot of girls that's prettier than my gf, what do you think about it ?
Me : In my opinion you don't really need to very listen what other people said. She doesn't need to be looked beautiful in everyone's eyes. She only need to be looked beautiful in your eyes. it's true that there are lot of girls who have prettier face than your girlfriend but your girlfriend will be the most beautiful person in your eyes if you truly love her.
14.
Anon : If Doraemon really exist, what will you ask to him ?
Me : Lot of thing, if Doraemon exist, I can make my world feels like a heaven.
15.
Anon : How much the money that you will think will make your life become great ?
Me : Human is a creature that never feel satisfied. If you ask me how much the money that we want, that I will ask you first : what is the highest number in this world ?
16.
Anon : I want to have a romantic dinner with my girlfriend, can you give me a recommend place, any place that romantic and very beautiful ? It's okay if it's little expensive, and can you tell me what's good in that place ?
Me : SKYE, Sofia The Gunawarman, Cafe Hotel Mulia Senayan Jakarta. I don't know the taste of their foods and whether those places are good or not. I just know all those places by seeing people's posts on instagram, I haven't ever gone to a place like that.
17.
Anon : I'm looking a person who can do anything, am i dreaming ?
Me : There's no such thing as a perfect person in this world.
18.
Anon : What is the best way to move on ?
Me : I don’t really know the best answer, but maybe the best way is “move to”
19.
Anon : Hi, I'm a girl and I asked many advise of this life from many boys, but all those advises are not suitable to me, are boys really can not give advise to girls ?
Me : I don't know what advise that you got, so I can not say surely. However you have to know that the way of life between man and woman is so much different.
20.
Anon : Do you miss high school ?
Me : At the beginning of my college time, I very missed it. But now I don’t really missing it. Maybe because it has been a long time and I have forgot my time on high school. One thing for sure, I don’t miss some teachers on my high school. After I remember what is my teachers like and comparing with my experiences in this real life , I feel disgusted with some teachers. My history teacher and my physics teacher in 10th grade, I have no respect to them as a person now.
21.
Anon : I'm really sad, why is problem keep on appearing in my life. When is the time my life will free from problems ?
Me : I ever feel that :'( When I always sad whenever any problem appeared. But life is like that, it always gave us some troubles in order to make us a better person. What we have to do is doing our best. I admit it that life has so many ways to play with our feeling, sometimes it can use such a cruel things.
22.
Anon : Why do you like watching football ?
Me : I don’t know, there’s no specific reason. I start to like football since 2006, and it still continued until now. Actually I rarely watching football due of my time and the match that held on the midnight on Indonesian time, but I always follow the latest result, news, highlights and everything about international football. To be honest , I’m thankful that I can be a football fan. It’s one of my part in my life.
23.
Anon : What will you if someone offer you to see devil or something else like that. Will you accept it ?
Me : Nope, I won't have any business with someone like that. That's really freak person. Instead of trying to see the devil , it's better to try to become a better person who believe in god. I won't try any stupid things like that.
24.
Anon : What do you think about LDR ? Do you like it ?
Me : I don’t really like LDR, because I believe distance can change the relation with other persons. In my life I have so much difficult times because of distance. I still can hold up, if I can have a time with a person I love although only once every 1 or 2 months, but being far war away and can not spend a time with a girl I love is such a sad thing, I don’t want to feel that sadness again. However having LDR can give you more happiness feeling when you finally can have a chance to have a time with a person you love.
25.
Anon : Do you believe in heaven ?
Me : Yes I do.
26.
Anon : What's ability that you really want ?
Me : The ability to control my emotion and feeling. At first I thought that it's a simple thing and then I realize that it's such really a difficult thing.
That's all the questions that I think is interesting.
Actually I don't answer all questions that appeared on my askfm, I just choose only good questions, and didn't answer privacy or stupid questions.
That’s why most of my answers are long answers in spite of the questions are very short.
I know that maybe some of my answers will get disagreement from many people, however all that answers are just my own opinions.
I just answered all the questions with my objective view and based on my experience in my life. Many people will have different opinions in many questions maybe, but it’s normal after all those are my own opinion.
But, It's really interesting to answering that good questions, maybe you can try to answer all that questions too :)
Regards
A Dream That May Fly Away
Today I really have a mix feeling that I can not exactly know what I really feel.
It's because of one of my dream.
Yes, every person in this world must be having many dreams.
What is your feeling when your dream finally came true ?
I think everyone will feel very happy if that happened.
In fact I'm always thinking like that too.
This day I have a chance to achieve one of my dream.
Actually this dream is not a kind of absolute dream.
What I mean of absolute dream here is a dream that can not change at all in my life.
For example my dream to become a very successful person and have a happy family, it's a dream that I think wont change at all.
My dream that I achieved today is a dream that actually can change.
Yes, there's a possibility that in the future I wont be dreaming about this dream again, even though I don't know exactly what will my feeling be like in that time.
So it's only a little dream ?
Actually I don't think so, despite of this is not an absolute dream, this dream is a dream that I always want since at about 2 years ago.
Although there's a long time since I started dreaming about it, I actually never have a chance to make this dream come true.
Honestly this dream is something that maybe doesn't need such a wonderful effort.
I see so many persons can have a chance to feel this dream, but due of my bad situation and condition, I could not have a chance to fulfill this dream even only once.
At that time I felt sad and envied so many people that can have that chance.
I often think about this dream day by day and before I sleep at that period.
Yes I guess this dream is really such a happiness to me, and I can put a smile on my face if I can get this dream.
Thankfully this day I had a chance that I'm always waiting for.
I was going to a time and a place to make one of my dream come true.
Even a minute before the time I still asked "is this really true ?".
Yes somehow I still could not believe that I can feel this dream after such a long time.
I finally can feel this feeling :)
Actually it's not like that 100% of my dream came true.
In fact this day, it was only a little part of my dream fulfilled.
Am I sad about it ?
Actually I don't feel sad at all.
Even only a little part of my dream that came true, but I think today is one of my happiest moment for a period.
Yes, they said the longer you wait, the happier you will feel when the time is come.
I think it's happened on my case.
Because I have been dreaming about this thing for such a long time, I become feel very happy when the time is finally come.
I really thankful and happy because a part of one of my dream is finally came true.
At last I can have a chance to feel this moments.
It's really a precious moments that I rarely get.
However I have a mix feeling about this.
It's true that I'm very happy because of this day.
But on any chance after fulfilling my dream, I realize that maybe that was the last time I can feel this dream.
Yes, I think maybe I will not have a chance like this again in the future.
Somehow this day is like a farewell to one of my dream.
Am I sad about it ?
Actually I don't know exactly how do I feel about this.
Some way I think that I feel relieve because finally I can feel this moment and maybe it's the time to say goodbye to this dream.
Like I said before, this is not an absolute dream.
At some way, I think that it's the best to let this dream for the sake of everything.
Yes I think this dream is not suitable to my condition and situation.
On one side I think like "Are you giving up on your dream ? ", but on the other side I think "It's not like I'm giving up, but it's for the sake of everybody, especially for myself. It's not an absolute dream, it's just a dream that coincidentally arrived in yourself".
Yes I think it's a time to let this dream because at least I can fulfill a part of this dream even only a little.
At the moment, I'm not crying or feel sad about it.
I don't know why, but I just smile and feel like that it's the time to let it go.
I'm really confuse, because I feel that it's not a dream that I can't easily forget and in some ways, I think I'm still dreaming about it.
Well after reading that story, I'm sure that many of you will feel confuse and think it's an ambiguous story.
Yes, it's normal.
For some reasons I can not describe what is this kind of dream very clearly.
I just more concern about my feeling this day.
Like I said that I think I'm happy to let this dream now, but in my heart I know that I will very happy if I can have a chance like this day again in the future.
It's really a mix feeling and actually I'm still not sure what I have to do and feel about this dream.
I hope that as a time goes by I will know the best answer about this.
Now I have to realize that I have to concern about the reality.
Yes I just hope that I can give my best in order to not letting my other dream, especially my absolute dream.
Regards
It's because of one of my dream.
Yes, every person in this world must be having many dreams.
What is your feeling when your dream finally came true ?
I think everyone will feel very happy if that happened.
In fact I'm always thinking like that too.
This day I have a chance to achieve one of my dream.
Actually this dream is not a kind of absolute dream.
What I mean of absolute dream here is a dream that can not change at all in my life.
For example my dream to become a very successful person and have a happy family, it's a dream that I think wont change at all.
My dream that I achieved today is a dream that actually can change.
Yes, there's a possibility that in the future I wont be dreaming about this dream again, even though I don't know exactly what will my feeling be like in that time.
So it's only a little dream ?
Actually I don't think so, despite of this is not an absolute dream, this dream is a dream that I always want since at about 2 years ago.
Although there's a long time since I started dreaming about it, I actually never have a chance to make this dream come true.
Honestly this dream is something that maybe doesn't need such a wonderful effort.
I see so many persons can have a chance to feel this dream, but due of my bad situation and condition, I could not have a chance to fulfill this dream even only once.
At that time I felt sad and envied so many people that can have that chance.
I often think about this dream day by day and before I sleep at that period.
Yes I guess this dream is really such a happiness to me, and I can put a smile on my face if I can get this dream.
Thankfully this day I had a chance that I'm always waiting for.
I was going to a time and a place to make one of my dream come true.
Even a minute before the time I still asked "is this really true ?".
Yes somehow I still could not believe that I can feel this dream after such a long time.
I finally can feel this feeling :)
Actually it's not like that 100% of my dream came true.
In fact this day, it was only a little part of my dream fulfilled.
Am I sad about it ?
Actually I don't feel sad at all.
Even only a little part of my dream that came true, but I think today is one of my happiest moment for a period.
Yes, they said the longer you wait, the happier you will feel when the time is come.
I think it's happened on my case.
Because I have been dreaming about this thing for such a long time, I become feel very happy when the time is finally come.
I really thankful and happy because a part of one of my dream is finally came true.
At last I can have a chance to feel this moments.
It's really a precious moments that I rarely get.
However I have a mix feeling about this.
It's true that I'm very happy because of this day.
But on any chance after fulfilling my dream, I realize that maybe that was the last time I can feel this dream.
Yes, I think maybe I will not have a chance like this again in the future.
Somehow this day is like a farewell to one of my dream.
Am I sad about it ?
Actually I don't know exactly how do I feel about this.
Some way I think that I feel relieve because finally I can feel this moment and maybe it's the time to say goodbye to this dream.
Like I said before, this is not an absolute dream.
At some way, I think that it's the best to let this dream for the sake of everything.
Yes I think this dream is not suitable to my condition and situation.
On one side I think like "Are you giving up on your dream ? ", but on the other side I think "It's not like I'm giving up, but it's for the sake of everybody, especially for myself. It's not an absolute dream, it's just a dream that coincidentally arrived in yourself".
Yes I think it's a time to let this dream because at least I can fulfill a part of this dream even only a little.
At the moment, I'm not crying or feel sad about it.
I don't know why, but I just smile and feel like that it's the time to let it go.
I'm really confuse, because I feel that it's not a dream that I can't easily forget and in some ways, I think I'm still dreaming about it.
Well after reading that story, I'm sure that many of you will feel confuse and think it's an ambiguous story.
Yes, it's normal.
For some reasons I can not describe what is this kind of dream very clearly.
I just more concern about my feeling this day.
Like I said that I think I'm happy to let this dream now, but in my heart I know that I will very happy if I can have a chance like this day again in the future.
It's really a mix feeling and actually I'm still not sure what I have to do and feel about this dream.
I hope that as a time goes by I will know the best answer about this.
Now I have to realize that I have to concern about the reality.
Yes I just hope that I can give my best in order to not letting my other dream, especially my absolute dream.
Regards
A Reason For Living
Have you known what is the reason of your birth ?
Do you know why did you born in this world ?
These kind of questions must be common questions that you ever heard from any motivator.
If you have found the answer, you must be very energetic to fight on your life.
Many years before and even sometimes at the moment, I still think about it.
Somehow I just confuse what is the reason of my existing in this world.
Because I feel that I don't really have a real meaning of myself.
I'm not a smart or clever person, and also I'm not a rich person who has a big income.
Also I don't have so many friends and rarely to have many precious memories with precious persons.
Sometimes I want to ask the god what is the reason that I'm still alive in this world, I don't know which aspect that can be a reason of my living.
I try to encourage myself to feel better.
Yes, on my mind I tried to answer all those questions to myself.
I said to my heart that it's not only a sadness that I got from my life, remember that I have so many things that can make me feel grateful that I can have a life.
I can taste so many delicious foods, drinking my favorite juice, enjoying football and motogp which are my favorite sports, watching a great movie, reading many stories books, go holiday to some beautiful places, know the affection of the parents, feel the beauty of falling in love, ever play with my friends and so many else that I may forget to mention.
All of those things I can get because I'm living.
So, there are lot of reasons to be happy that we're alive.
It's true on the other side life gave us so many hard time and terrible moments.
However the most important thing is our point of view of that hard time/moments.
We got bad things, felt hard moments, and experienced the bad time for a period.
Simply we thought that all those things is not useful at all in our life, except of giving us lot of troubles.
However all those things make us stronger than before.
Indeed, we become a better person because of all those things, since learning from our mistake is human's ability.
If I compare myself many years ago and at the moment, I can see that I have improved so much.
Maybe I have not been fully a great person, but at least I'm very far better than myself on the past.
Somehow I can see this is as a beauty of this life too :
"Improved and growing up".
At some time I ask myself to look back at my journey and said "that was a way that you have passed, all of things that happen during that time help you to have so many lessons and experience to make you become a better person, and now you must look the way in front of you, that's your future, you have to continue this journey in order to improve far better than at the moment".
Yes, I can see that lot of people really fight for their life, every persons have to face their problem in order to growing up.
Some people maybe said that life is flat and really boring.
But I realize that at this world, life give us so many many things that we can fight for, even I think that our time is not enough to fight for all of those things.
Life give us good things to make us smile and bad things for us to growing up, maybe it's the formula of this life.
"Never feel depressed about your life, be grateful that you are able to do the things that you dream of doing, and live everyday working towards them. That is the key to true happiness"
I just want to share this quote to lot of people.
It's not that I have fully implemented that quote to myself, in fact I still trying to 100% put that principle on myself.
One thing I know, this life is really full of stories, experiences, lessons and so many unexpected things that we can find.
Bad moments and Happy moments can be happened in our life.
Somehow I understand what is the reason why I still be alive in this world.
I always try to keep this principal on my life.
"Always giving your best despite of the result".
Well maybe at this time, I feel that my life is at bad condition, but i'm keeping alive in this world because there are still so many things that we can do.
Many lessons and experience that I still can get, many efforts that I can still give to fight for this life, and hopefully many happiness and many dreams that maybe still I can get
Regards
Do you know why did you born in this world ?
These kind of questions must be common questions that you ever heard from any motivator.
If you have found the answer, you must be very energetic to fight on your life.
Many years before and even sometimes at the moment, I still think about it.
Somehow I just confuse what is the reason of my existing in this world.
Because I feel that I don't really have a real meaning of myself.
I'm not a smart or clever person, and also I'm not a rich person who has a big income.
Also I don't have so many friends and rarely to have many precious memories with precious persons.
Sometimes I want to ask the god what is the reason that I'm still alive in this world, I don't know which aspect that can be a reason of my living.
I try to encourage myself to feel better.
Yes, on my mind I tried to answer all those questions to myself.
I said to my heart that it's not only a sadness that I got from my life, remember that I have so many things that can make me feel grateful that I can have a life.
I can taste so many delicious foods, drinking my favorite juice, enjoying football and motogp which are my favorite sports, watching a great movie, reading many stories books, go holiday to some beautiful places, know the affection of the parents, feel the beauty of falling in love, ever play with my friends and so many else that I may forget to mention.
All of those things I can get because I'm living.
So, there are lot of reasons to be happy that we're alive.
It's true on the other side life gave us so many hard time and terrible moments.
However the most important thing is our point of view of that hard time/moments.
We got bad things, felt hard moments, and experienced the bad time for a period.
Simply we thought that all those things is not useful at all in our life, except of giving us lot of troubles.
However all those things make us stronger than before.
Indeed, we become a better person because of all those things, since learning from our mistake is human's ability.
If I compare myself many years ago and at the moment, I can see that I have improved so much.
Maybe I have not been fully a great person, but at least I'm very far better than myself on the past.
Somehow I can see this is as a beauty of this life too :
"Improved and growing up".
At some time I ask myself to look back at my journey and said "that was a way that you have passed, all of things that happen during that time help you to have so many lessons and experience to make you become a better person, and now you must look the way in front of you, that's your future, you have to continue this journey in order to improve far better than at the moment".
Yes, I can see that lot of people really fight for their life, every persons have to face their problem in order to growing up.
Some people maybe said that life is flat and really boring.
But I realize that at this world, life give us so many many things that we can fight for, even I think that our time is not enough to fight for all of those things.
Life give us good things to make us smile and bad things for us to growing up, maybe it's the formula of this life.
"Never feel depressed about your life, be grateful that you are able to do the things that you dream of doing, and live everyday working towards them. That is the key to true happiness"
I just want to share this quote to lot of people.
It's not that I have fully implemented that quote to myself, in fact I still trying to 100% put that principle on myself.
One thing I know, this life is really full of stories, experiences, lessons and so many unexpected things that we can find.
Bad moments and Happy moments can be happened in our life.
Somehow I understand what is the reason why I still be alive in this world.
I always try to keep this principal on my life.
"Always giving your best despite of the result".
Well maybe at this time, I feel that my life is at bad condition, but i'm keeping alive in this world because there are still so many things that we can do.
Many lessons and experience that I still can get, many efforts that I can still give to fight for this life, and hopefully many happiness and many dreams that maybe still I can get
Regards
Happiness Source In This Life
All of the people in this world must be want to be happy in this life.
Yes as a human, we must be pursuiting happiness for ourself.
How can we get that happiness ?
A happy family, a financial freedom, a mutual love, a hobby, or anything else.
So many things that we want in order to feel happy in our life.
From all of those things, most of people think that money is the most important of all.
Because, with having a lot of money, there's a big chance that we can buy or do many things that we want.
It's natural if people think that money is important and can give us a lot happiness.
In fact,I also agree with that opinion.
I always think that being a person who has a lot of money will bring me a happiness.
In fact I realize that currently I often don't feel happy in my life because of my desire to achieve that goal.
My situation currently is still far away from the one that I want.
I always want to be a person who has a financial freedom, but in fact my financial situation is still far from that, or it can be said that it's still "nothing" compare to my dream.
Yes, everyday before I sleep and on my lonely time I'm always thinking about that and it might be erase a smile on myself.
For a lot of time, I'm very sure that money is a happiness source.
I think that by having a lot of money will make this world like a heaven, I can buy many things that I want, I can go holiday to every place that I dream, I can do many things that I like to, and maybe I will get so many appreciation by lot of people and may be can get more friends.
However my perspective about that is changed a little.
I see some cases that related to this topic.
A first example that I saw with my own eyes is a case that related to a job.
For all this time, I thought that the people who has a "not prospectable" job that can not earn lot of money will have a miserable life.
Because I think they will not have a great future with their current job, and also they work only to survive in this world, not to achieve their dream.
However I have a talk with the persons who worked as a courier and a driver.
Those 2 jobs can be said as a "low" job in my country ( I think you and lot of people will have the same opinion on me).
But these two people said that they enjoyed their life.
A courier told me that she enjoyed her usual activity, everyday she's packing package , sending to many address, she said that it's a challenging job.
Everyday she met with so many people and she gave her smile to other humans.
A driver told me that he enjoyed his life too, He liked driving a car, so this kind of job is really suit for him, everyday he met with so many kinds of people and he got so many stories, experience and different cultures to know, also he had a challenge to go to the place that he has not known before, He became more know about routes of way, and can see lot of new places.
What I got from all those 2 stories ?`
Actually my goal is still the same, I still want to have a lot of money, and in fact it doesn't make my standard become lower.
However what I can get from all those stories is this :
"Happiness is relative".
Yes for such a long time I think that happiness is like an absolute thing.
I believe that the people who don't have lot of money and get the job which the income only enough to survive in this world will have a difficulty to feel happy in this life.
However it maybe not as like as I thought.
The people who have worse situation than us somehow can be happier than us.
If I think from more cases, it's really true.
A person who has a car maybe less happier than a person who only has a bycycle, because a person who has a car always want a more luxurious car than (his/her) currently car while the other person is really like to riding bycycle and enjoying the nature.
A student who got 90 in the test can be less happier than a student who got 75 in the test, because the first student always want to get the 100 score in every test, while the other one is satisfied because they have given their best and can pass the exam.
A child who can entered a superior school can be not happier than a kid who can not get to school, because a kid who entered a superior scholl can not get many friends due the competition in that school while the second one can get so many friends with many kids that has a same situation with him.
Some people who can meet with their lover once a week are not very happy because they want to see with their lover everyday, while there are some people that can be happy by having a little chat with the person they love.
So what is my biggest point in this ?
Is money still important ? In fact money is very very important in this life, because we need it for our living.
Money is everything ? Well, I can say that money is 99% of everything ?
Money can buy happiness ? Money can help us a lot to get the happiness.
But at the end, the first happiness source is ourself.
We really have to fight and give our best to get our goal of this life.
Live Happily Ever After
Regards
Yes as a human, we must be pursuiting happiness for ourself.
How can we get that happiness ?
A happy family, a financial freedom, a mutual love, a hobby, or anything else.
So many things that we want in order to feel happy in our life.
From all of those things, most of people think that money is the most important of all.
Because, with having a lot of money, there's a big chance that we can buy or do many things that we want.
It's natural if people think that money is important and can give us a lot happiness.
In fact,I also agree with that opinion.
I always think that being a person who has a lot of money will bring me a happiness.
In fact I realize that currently I often don't feel happy in my life because of my desire to achieve that goal.
My situation currently is still far away from the one that I want.
I always want to be a person who has a financial freedom, but in fact my financial situation is still far from that, or it can be said that it's still "nothing" compare to my dream.
Yes, everyday before I sleep and on my lonely time I'm always thinking about that and it might be erase a smile on myself.
For a lot of time, I'm very sure that money is a happiness source.
I think that by having a lot of money will make this world like a heaven, I can buy many things that I want, I can go holiday to every place that I dream, I can do many things that I like to, and maybe I will get so many appreciation by lot of people and may be can get more friends.
However my perspective about that is changed a little.
I see some cases that related to this topic.
A first example that I saw with my own eyes is a case that related to a job.
For all this time, I thought that the people who has a "not prospectable" job that can not earn lot of money will have a miserable life.
Because I think they will not have a great future with their current job, and also they work only to survive in this world, not to achieve their dream.
However I have a talk with the persons who worked as a courier and a driver.
Those 2 jobs can be said as a "low" job in my country ( I think you and lot of people will have the same opinion on me).
But these two people said that they enjoyed their life.
A courier told me that she enjoyed her usual activity, everyday she's packing package , sending to many address, she said that it's a challenging job.
Everyday she met with so many people and she gave her smile to other humans.
A driver told me that he enjoyed his life too, He liked driving a car, so this kind of job is really suit for him, everyday he met with so many kinds of people and he got so many stories, experience and different cultures to know, also he had a challenge to go to the place that he has not known before, He became more know about routes of way, and can see lot of new places.
What I got from all those 2 stories ?`
Actually my goal is still the same, I still want to have a lot of money, and in fact it doesn't make my standard become lower.
However what I can get from all those stories is this :
"Happiness is relative".
Yes for such a long time I think that happiness is like an absolute thing.
I believe that the people who don't have lot of money and get the job which the income only enough to survive in this world will have a difficulty to feel happy in this life.
However it maybe not as like as I thought.
The people who have worse situation than us somehow can be happier than us.
If I think from more cases, it's really true.
A person who has a car maybe less happier than a person who only has a bycycle, because a person who has a car always want a more luxurious car than (his/her) currently car while the other person is really like to riding bycycle and enjoying the nature.
A student who got 90 in the test can be less happier than a student who got 75 in the test, because the first student always want to get the 100 score in every test, while the other one is satisfied because they have given their best and can pass the exam.
A child who can entered a superior school can be not happier than a kid who can not get to school, because a kid who entered a superior scholl can not get many friends due the competition in that school while the second one can get so many friends with many kids that has a same situation with him.
Some people who can meet with their lover once a week are not very happy because they want to see with their lover everyday, while there are some people that can be happy by having a little chat with the person they love.
So what is my biggest point in this ?
Is money still important ? In fact money is very very important in this life, because we need it for our living.
Money is everything ? Well, I can say that money is 99% of everything ?
Money can buy happiness ? Money can help us a lot to get the happiness.
But at the end, the first happiness source is ourself.
We really have to fight and give our best to get our goal of this life.
Live Happily Ever After
Regards
My Best Person In My Life
It's really getting hard for me to writing a story again on this site.
I become don't have so much time to spare for telling my experience.
So many reasons that make me have less time than before.
Many tasks and many things that on my mind really took my time.
Since I have a little time this time, I want to write so deeply.
In this post, I will tell about my best person in my life so far.
Who is that person?
For most of the people arround my age maybe firstly will think that the person is my lover.
Well, I don't have a girlfriend at the moment, so it must be wrong.
My very best friend ?
Well sadly, I don't have one, maybe I have some best friends, but my relationship with all of them is not so very very deep like that.
Instead, that person is my father :)
Yes I really want to write so many things about him at this chance.
To be honest, My father and me have very opposite personality.
Unlike me, who is a sensitive person and always thinking more, my father is very ignorant person.
He never thinking so much about little things and stupid things that's not very important.
My father never ask my score or my grade even since I was in elementary school.
There's a time when I had a birthday and my father didn't wish me, but I just understand him, because sometimes my father forgot about his own birthday Lol.
Eventhough my father is an ignorant person, but still I can feel his affection so much.
He has many attention in some aspects especially if there's important things.
My father always think about his family when we told him our condition.
He has a very good control with his feeling, He think about important thing and didn't take so much about unimportant things.
That's why my father rarely feel sad because a little thing, (so much different with me yeah :D )
He is very hardworking person.
I never heard or feel the "lazy" word from my father.
He's working so hard to fulfill our family's needs.
My father worked in our store that far from our home.
It takes 1,5 hours from our home to the store.
When I was highschool, my mother stayed with us at our home, and my father worked at the store, He only came back home once every 3 days, because if my father back and forth everyday, He will feel very tired must be.
At that time, my father had so many times alone, especially after the works.
He need to cook and prepare food by himself after the work.
Even there was a time when my father had to back and forth 2 times a day to take our products.
So hard yes ?
But with all of that, I never heard or saw my father complained about that.
He always has a full spirit to do his duty.
Never ever think in his mind, he want to skip a day because he feel lazy.
He is a very responsible person.
To be think, our family has a quite good condition, we have a home, car, the children can go to quite good school, and thankfully we can have a chance to ever go holiday at some countries, all of that is thanks to my father.
His work give us all that blessings.
He's really our savior.
My father is very ignorant, but he is the most friendly person in our family.
He often start an conversation in our family and he gave us many jokes that made us smile.
Honestly, my father is not very hard to his children including me.
He never demand me to do hard things.
I know that maybe it makes me to not become a very great person who can do so many things.
But still I'm glad that I can feel the affetion of my father.
Honestly I can not imagined if my father being hard towards me, maybe it will make a chance that I can be a great person, but with like that, maybe I won't be very close to my father.
Like I saw at some movie that tell a story about a father who train his son hardly, that son maybe become a great person that can do many things, but he never laugh with his father and never have such a fun conversation or jokes with his father, I just can't imagined if I have that kind of relationship with my father.
I'm really thankful that my father has this character.
There's a time when my aunties had a conversation with my twin about choosing a man.
My aunties told my twin to search for a nice and good man, not only a rich man.
And all of my aunties gave my father as an example of that good man.
They're very sure about it.
I'm agree with all of my aunties
As a husband of my mother, my father is a very gentleman person.
He always keep my mother as much as he can.
My mother has a bad stamina and a trouble with her bones, so she could not walk for a long hours.
When our family went to holiday, there's a chance that my mother didn't want to walk to a place that requires to take stairs, so my mother want to wait at rest spot and wait for us to comeback after going to that place.
Actually I know that my father can go with us and see a wonderful view, but still he choose to wait for us and accompany my mother.
He did it so many times.
Even there's a time when our relative invite us to go holiday abroad.
At first all of my family want to accept that invitation.
But it was told that in that holiday we have to prepare for our stamina because we will need to walk for a far distance at many chances.
My mother finally decided to not take a part of it because she scared that she couldn't keep with it.
After that my father also decided to not take part of it, not because he's not strong enough with a long walk, but he want to company my mother at the home.
So touchful isn't it ?
He's willing for letting a rarely chance, just to company my mother.
My father is really care about my mother.
He's also a healthy person.
My father will turn 60 at the end of this year, but he has a very good health.
It because he has healthy lifestyle.
My father doesn't smoking or drinking beer or any other bad lifestyle.
He has enough sleep and eat healthy food properly almost everyday.
That's he rarely got sick and still has a good stamina.
I'm really thankful about it, because I still can not imagine if my father get serious disease, cause our family is still very need him.
He has a crucial role at our family indeed.
That's so many things that I can see from my father.
Just let it be the words for him, eventhough I know that he will not read this post, but I'm really touchful by myself when I'm writing this post.
Thank you for being my father since I was born and giving me so much affection until the way I am now.
I really appreciate and love all the things that you have done and given to me.
Also I hope that someday I can fulfill your dream to seeing me become a better person than you.
Eventhough I know it seems so very difficult, but I really hope that I can do that
I just want that I can still see you even until the time when I have to leave this world.
Regards
I become don't have so much time to spare for telling my experience.
So many reasons that make me have less time than before.
Many tasks and many things that on my mind really took my time.
Since I have a little time this time, I want to write so deeply.
In this post, I will tell about my best person in my life so far.
Who is that person?
For most of the people arround my age maybe firstly will think that the person is my lover.
Well, I don't have a girlfriend at the moment, so it must be wrong.
My very best friend ?
Well sadly, I don't have one, maybe I have some best friends, but my relationship with all of them is not so very very deep like that.
Instead, that person is my father :)
Yes I really want to write so many things about him at this chance.
To be honest, My father and me have very opposite personality.
Unlike me, who is a sensitive person and always thinking more, my father is very ignorant person.
He never thinking so much about little things and stupid things that's not very important.
My father never ask my score or my grade even since I was in elementary school.
There's a time when I had a birthday and my father didn't wish me, but I just understand him, because sometimes my father forgot about his own birthday Lol.
Eventhough my father is an ignorant person, but still I can feel his affection so much.
He has many attention in some aspects especially if there's important things.
My father always think about his family when we told him our condition.
He has a very good control with his feeling, He think about important thing and didn't take so much about unimportant things.
That's why my father rarely feel sad because a little thing, (so much different with me yeah :D )
He is very hardworking person.
I never heard or feel the "lazy" word from my father.
He's working so hard to fulfill our family's needs.
My father worked in our store that far from our home.
It takes 1,5 hours from our home to the store.
When I was highschool, my mother stayed with us at our home, and my father worked at the store, He only came back home once every 3 days, because if my father back and forth everyday, He will feel very tired must be.
At that time, my father had so many times alone, especially after the works.
He need to cook and prepare food by himself after the work.
Even there was a time when my father had to back and forth 2 times a day to take our products.
So hard yes ?
But with all of that, I never heard or saw my father complained about that.
He always has a full spirit to do his duty.
Never ever think in his mind, he want to skip a day because he feel lazy.
He is a very responsible person.
To be think, our family has a quite good condition, we have a home, car, the children can go to quite good school, and thankfully we can have a chance to ever go holiday at some countries, all of that is thanks to my father.
His work give us all that blessings.
He's really our savior.
My father is very ignorant, but he is the most friendly person in our family.
He often start an conversation in our family and he gave us many jokes that made us smile.
Honestly, my father is not very hard to his children including me.
He never demand me to do hard things.
I know that maybe it makes me to not become a very great person who can do so many things.
But still I'm glad that I can feel the affetion of my father.
Honestly I can not imagined if my father being hard towards me, maybe it will make a chance that I can be a great person, but with like that, maybe I won't be very close to my father.
Like I saw at some movie that tell a story about a father who train his son hardly, that son maybe become a great person that can do many things, but he never laugh with his father and never have such a fun conversation or jokes with his father, I just can't imagined if I have that kind of relationship with my father.
I'm really thankful that my father has this character.
There's a time when my aunties had a conversation with my twin about choosing a man.
My aunties told my twin to search for a nice and good man, not only a rich man.
And all of my aunties gave my father as an example of that good man.
They're very sure about it.
I'm agree with all of my aunties
As a husband of my mother, my father is a very gentleman person.
He always keep my mother as much as he can.
My mother has a bad stamina and a trouble with her bones, so she could not walk for a long hours.
When our family went to holiday, there's a chance that my mother didn't want to walk to a place that requires to take stairs, so my mother want to wait at rest spot and wait for us to comeback after going to that place.
Actually I know that my father can go with us and see a wonderful view, but still he choose to wait for us and accompany my mother.
He did it so many times.
Even there's a time when our relative invite us to go holiday abroad.
At first all of my family want to accept that invitation.
But it was told that in that holiday we have to prepare for our stamina because we will need to walk for a far distance at many chances.
My mother finally decided to not take a part of it because she scared that she couldn't keep with it.
After that my father also decided to not take part of it, not because he's not strong enough with a long walk, but he want to company my mother at the home.
So touchful isn't it ?
He's willing for letting a rarely chance, just to company my mother.
My father is really care about my mother.
He's also a healthy person.
My father will turn 60 at the end of this year, but he has a very good health.
It because he has healthy lifestyle.
My father doesn't smoking or drinking beer or any other bad lifestyle.
He has enough sleep and eat healthy food properly almost everyday.
That's he rarely got sick and still has a good stamina.
I'm really thankful about it, because I still can not imagine if my father get serious disease, cause our family is still very need him.
He has a crucial role at our family indeed.
That's so many things that I can see from my father.
Just let it be the words for him, eventhough I know that he will not read this post, but I'm really touchful by myself when I'm writing this post.
Thank you for being my father since I was born and giving me so much affection until the way I am now.
I really appreciate and love all the things that you have done and given to me.
Also I hope that someday I can fulfill your dream to seeing me become a better person than you.
Eventhough I know it seems so very difficult, but I really hope that I can do that
I just want that I can still see you even until the time when I have to leave this world.
Prefering To Be Alone But Hates To Become Lonely
Human is a social creature.
Isn't that right ?
Everyone believe that there's no even a single person who can live this life alone and doesn't need any other persons at this world.
Yes, in my opinion that's the truth.
In our life, there's must be lot of times that we want to meet or interact with other people.
Furthermore, that interaction can make a difference to ourself.
It can change our way of thinking, our way of speaking, our perspective and lot of other changes.
I have so many chances to spend time with many friends when I was highschool.
And I was happy and liked to spend so much times with my friends at that time.
However a different story happened in my college time.
I lived most of my college time alone.
It can be said that at about 85% of my 4 years period, I spent my time without any other persons.
Having dinner, spend a weekend, do a sport, going to church, celebrating my birthday.
All those activities I did it myself without any other persons.
Actually I never expected or imagined my life will be the way of that time was.
I could not have some chances to making lot of friends or having fun like common teenagers because of some reasons and some situations that I could not change.
At my college time I met with lot of other people.
Actually I met more people than when I was in highschool.
However almost all those people were "Temporary People".
Yes, I had a connection with those people only just because of the same task or the same affair.
Out of that, I had no connection.
Furthermore, I met lot of people that came to me only just when there was something that they want.
I didn't have so much chances to made friends with many persons at that time, that's why it can be said that my college time is not like other people at the common.
Throwing back to that period, I remember at that time I often felt sad because of the loneliness.
I hate to be alone at that time, when I thought there's no one appreciate me as a person.
Sometimes I thought it's better for me to become an antisocial person that doesn't want to make friends with other people.
A person who very ignorant about social life.
It's ugly ?
Yes, because at that time I thought that even if I couldn't make friends, at least I didn't need to felt the lonely feeling if I became an antisocial person.
It really took my mind honestly.
Time has past since that time.
I don't know whether it's a little change on myself or anything else.
But I think at this time I become used to at that kind of situation.
Now I see that being alone is not as bad as I thought at the first time.
When I'm alone, I think about all my life deeply, it's such like a me time I call.
I just love the time when I'm being alone at some moment and at some place, because it can help me to relax my mind.
At this time I worked in my Bali, and I realize something.
At this town I don't feel uncomfortable when I have to eat alone at some out place or going out to public place alone.
I just realize maybe at the college time, I just felt uncomfortable and a little shy when I met some people I know that walk grouply and seeing me alone at some public place.
At this place, I don't have to worry about that since there's no one that I know at this town.
One thing that I realize is when I saw some people that having fun grouply, I didn't feel envy if all those people indeed are people that I'm not close to.
I just felt sad when there were some people that quite close to me but at the end I couldn't have a chance to play with them.
That's made me envy when I saw lot of people have ever so many chances to play with my close friend, when I had such a difficulty to play with them even only once.
Sometimes I think that it's better like this, when I have no friends or any person that become precious to me, with this way I can avoid such social drama or a disappointment that happen when I was enthusiast about friendship.
Because I think there's no one person that trully care about me in this world except of family.
According to that reason, I prefer to be alone person because hoping to other person sometimes is such a stupid thing.
However I can't deny the fact that I'm also a human too.
I can't do all the things alone.
I'm not a very clever and reliable person, because of that I still need other people's help at some moments.
More of it, I'm also a social person.
I really want to meet some persons that close to me and have a good feeling to have an conversation with me.
Sometimes I feel the loneliness again when I was alone and it makes myself to have a desire to meet up with some of my friends.
I just want it so badly.
But I feel that it's very difficult at this time.
Because, now I see that for most of people at my current age, it's not longer a time to have so much times to play or hangout with friends.
Since we have worked and very busy with our works.
I just feel that some persons don't anthusiast to meet up or just having a talk.
I feel that some persons I know become don't like to have a contact or something else.
Sometimes I just wonder is it a wrong thing when I try to keep in touch and have a contact ?
Because I just have so many experiences that my relationship with other person become change because the passing of time.
However I can not ask that other persons to being the way I want.
Since they are busy to prepare for the future and trying to chasing their dream.
I often think that it's such a pity I didn't have so many moments at my college time.
Whenever I and my friends talked about college times, my friends had so many stories and experiences about social aspect while I'm not having so much thing to tell about it.
Honestly I'm still wishing to have a lot of moments with my friends at my current age although it's late, but also I still like to have a time for me alone to make my mind.
Is it funny when I like 2 things that totally opposite.
I'm quite thankful because my life at the college time became better at the last period, because I can have some friends that want to invite me or want to talk with me even not so much.
But still I have some regrets about my college time.
That's why I have such a mind, when there's a time when I have to leave this world, If I can, I can ask to have a chance to live a new life and hoping that I will have a happy normal young life like common people.
Regards
Isn't that right ?
Everyone believe that there's no even a single person who can live this life alone and doesn't need any other persons at this world.
Yes, in my opinion that's the truth.
In our life, there's must be lot of times that we want to meet or interact with other people.
Furthermore, that interaction can make a difference to ourself.
It can change our way of thinking, our way of speaking, our perspective and lot of other changes.
I have so many chances to spend time with many friends when I was highschool.
And I was happy and liked to spend so much times with my friends at that time.
However a different story happened in my college time.
I lived most of my college time alone.
It can be said that at about 85% of my 4 years period, I spent my time without any other persons.
Having dinner, spend a weekend, do a sport, going to church, celebrating my birthday.
All those activities I did it myself without any other persons.
Actually I never expected or imagined my life will be the way of that time was.
I could not have some chances to making lot of friends or having fun like common teenagers because of some reasons and some situations that I could not change.
At my college time I met with lot of other people.
Actually I met more people than when I was in highschool.
However almost all those people were "Temporary People".
Yes, I had a connection with those people only just because of the same task or the same affair.
Out of that, I had no connection.
Furthermore, I met lot of people that came to me only just when there was something that they want.
I didn't have so much chances to made friends with many persons at that time, that's why it can be said that my college time is not like other people at the common.
Throwing back to that period, I remember at that time I often felt sad because of the loneliness.
I hate to be alone at that time, when I thought there's no one appreciate me as a person.
Sometimes I thought it's better for me to become an antisocial person that doesn't want to make friends with other people.
A person who very ignorant about social life.
It's ugly ?
Yes, because at that time I thought that even if I couldn't make friends, at least I didn't need to felt the lonely feeling if I became an antisocial person.
It really took my mind honestly.
Time has past since that time.
I don't know whether it's a little change on myself or anything else.
But I think at this time I become used to at that kind of situation.
Now I see that being alone is not as bad as I thought at the first time.
When I'm alone, I think about all my life deeply, it's such like a me time I call.
I just love the time when I'm being alone at some moment and at some place, because it can help me to relax my mind.
At this time I worked in my Bali, and I realize something.
At this town I don't feel uncomfortable when I have to eat alone at some out place or going out to public place alone.
I just realize maybe at the college time, I just felt uncomfortable and a little shy when I met some people I know that walk grouply and seeing me alone at some public place.
At this place, I don't have to worry about that since there's no one that I know at this town.
One thing that I realize is when I saw some people that having fun grouply, I didn't feel envy if all those people indeed are people that I'm not close to.
I just felt sad when there were some people that quite close to me but at the end I couldn't have a chance to play with them.
That's made me envy when I saw lot of people have ever so many chances to play with my close friend, when I had such a difficulty to play with them even only once.
Sometimes I think that it's better like this, when I have no friends or any person that become precious to me, with this way I can avoid such social drama or a disappointment that happen when I was enthusiast about friendship.
Because I think there's no one person that trully care about me in this world except of family.
According to that reason, I prefer to be alone person because hoping to other person sometimes is such a stupid thing.
However I can't deny the fact that I'm also a human too.
I can't do all the things alone.
I'm not a very clever and reliable person, because of that I still need other people's help at some moments.
More of it, I'm also a social person.
I really want to meet some persons that close to me and have a good feeling to have an conversation with me.
Sometimes I feel the loneliness again when I was alone and it makes myself to have a desire to meet up with some of my friends.
I just want it so badly.
But I feel that it's very difficult at this time.
Because, now I see that for most of people at my current age, it's not longer a time to have so much times to play or hangout with friends.
Since we have worked and very busy with our works.
I just feel that some persons don't anthusiast to meet up or just having a talk.
I feel that some persons I know become don't like to have a contact or something else.
Sometimes I just wonder is it a wrong thing when I try to keep in touch and have a contact ?
Because I just have so many experiences that my relationship with other person become change because the passing of time.
However I can not ask that other persons to being the way I want.
Since they are busy to prepare for the future and trying to chasing their dream.
I often think that it's such a pity I didn't have so many moments at my college time.
Whenever I and my friends talked about college times, my friends had so many stories and experiences about social aspect while I'm not having so much thing to tell about it.
Honestly I'm still wishing to have a lot of moments with my friends at my current age although it's late, but also I still like to have a time for me alone to make my mind.
Is it funny when I like 2 things that totally opposite.
I'm quite thankful because my life at the college time became better at the last period, because I can have some friends that want to invite me or want to talk with me even not so much.
But still I have some regrets about my college time.
That's why I have such a mind, when there's a time when I have to leave this world, If I can, I can ask to have a chance to live a new life and hoping that I will have a happy normal young life like common people.
Regards
Helping Others
There's no such thing as a perfect person in this world.
Everyone must be agree to the statement above.
It's a fact that no matter how great, smart, rich, and good a human is, there must be a time when we need other people's help.
At this time I want to talk about the aspect of helping other people.
Nowadays, to be honest I rarely see people who want to help other person sincerely.
I often see most of people want to help only when the problem is related to them or because of the hidden things they want.
Lot of people thought that other people's problem is not something they have to think or take a part at all.
Well it maybe sounds normal since this life has really provides so much problems to ourself, so maybe we don't have a time to take a part at other people's problem.
But some stories make my own perspective about this.
I have some stories about this aspect, although these stories happended in the past.
It was at my collegue time at about 3 years ago.
I was given an individual project by my lecturer at my university.
Honestly that lesson was a difficult subject at that term, and furthermore I'm not a person who has a smart brain so it really getting more difficult to finish the task.
I was searching at internet about that subject, but still I could not make a big difference since I'm not clever enough maybe.
I just getting frustation and desperate because of the deadline was getting closer.
I asked for a help to many persons including my classmates and my senior.
It didn't get better so much, since my classmates were also very busy with their project too, and also my seniors only just answered a little of my question.
I was just getting confused and I was searching other person again.
I looked up at my contact and I found one of my highscholl friend that took the same majors with me but he studied at different university.
Let me tell my relation and background with this friend first.
We're highschool best friend.
I played and spent a lot of time with him.
Honestly at the highschool it can be said that I'm far smarter than him.
I always teached him at many subjects and maybe it can said that I has a better score than him at all the subject at the school.
However still, I try to help him since he's one of my close friend eventhough at that time it looked like that there's nothing that I can ask for his help.
Backagain at my story of the task.
I try to asked for the help from my friend because I wasn't longer know who I could ask for help.
How was the result ?
Yeah, he wanted to help me a lot.
He asked me the problem very detail and he did some of the parts of my task.
It really made situation became very better than before.
He helped me to do my task for many hours at that night and he did it like it was his own project.
My project became had a significant progress and I said big thankyou for him and then he replied "Okayy, tommorow just chat me again if there's other problem appears".
At the next 2 days I chatted him again for his help because the deadline is just about tommorow and sadly many problems appeared again and I couldn't fix it.
My friend did it exactly the same as before, he helped me a lot.
Even at that time, it took longer than before.
We did my project for lot of hours even until the midnight.
My task finally finished at that late of night and I was really glad.
I said this to my friend "Hey, I'm really really thank you to you because I already don't know who I can ask for help, I'm sorry to make you help me even until this late of night"
What just he replied ? It really made touchful.
He replied "Take it easy vin, I used to always asked for your help when we were in the highschool and now it's my turn to help you. Just chat me anytime when you have this problem again, I will help you as much as I can".
At that moment I just speechless for a time.
Before, I never imagined that I will ask for the help from the person that used to asked for my help.
This wheel of the life really can spin !
I was really grateful because the help that I did in the past could give me such this kind of thing.
However, I think it's not fair if at this aspect I just only talk about the position when we are the one who ask for help.
I have some story when I was in the position that I was being asked for the help.
At my collegue time I was ever being asked by some of my friends and my junior to taught them at some subject.
At first, everything sounds normal when I could try to help as much as I could.
But I just felt different when I was in a difficult situation too.
I was ever being asked to taught my junior for the exam despite of I had an exam to the next day.
I had sacrifice my plan to studied earlier 2 days before the exam to taught my junior, but I was still asked to taught at the day before the exam day.
I admit it that it annoyed me a little, If I spend this day to taught, how about my exam tommorow ? I could not study if I had to taught them.
Also I ever asked by my classmate to help or teach them a lesson.
I ever felt strange about it, at that time I was also a bad situation since my own task haven't finished and the subject that they asked to me was a difficult subject.
Because I knew that those people who asked my help have some close friend that far clever than me, sometimes I asked why it always me that always must help in spite of there were many people who had better situation and who has a bigger chance to help?
Yes, honestly I ever felt that I was a little bit confused when I was being asked for the help at the time when I had a bad situation.
So what is the conclusion ?
People must be have so many different opinions.
From the stories above and all other experiences I have, I have my own opinion and it will remain at my perspective.
It's true that we can not help other people anytime and anywhere since we must be have our problems in our life.
But when you have a chance to help others, we have to help as much as we can.
Even at some cases when we help other people and there's no rewards we got, it still a right things.
What's wrong with that ?
Helping other people is not such a bad thing right ?
We have to help when the situation is possible, because in my opinion if we have a big chance to help but we don't want to do it, it means the same that we're the cause of the problem.
Deep but true I think.
There's more things about this aspect.
First, always appreciate about other people's kindness.
There are some cases that the people who asked for help didn't have any respect.
They only focus with the result, when other people have given their best effort but still don't give so much difference, the people who asked for a help sometimes went fastly without even say thank you.
They don't think about the intention and the effort that other people has given, maybe it can be one of the reason many people become lazy to help.
So I think we have still to respect and appreciate other people's intention to help despite of the result.
Also there are so many ways to help other people.
So many kind of things that you never think that it can be considered as a help.
For some of my friends that ever have a time to sharing and have a long chat/talk with me maybe realize at the end of the conversation I often said "Thank you for the long conversation that we done".
It sounds like not so much thing maybe, but for me who has a lot of such a situation, I really mean it.
I really thankful to that and I think that's a kind of helping me.
I really say thankyou with a big mean not only as a formality.
There are many kinds of ways of helping other people that maybe we don't realize.
For us who are being asked for a help, maybe we think the problem or a hand that we give is just a small thing and doesn't make a great effect, but maybe for the one who ask for a help it can be means so much.
Well, this post become a very long stories.
Since I'm quite interested at this aspect.
I'm quite thankful because at the moment , I still see some of people that intend to help other people without expecting any rewards.
Also some people who always appreciate other people's intention and effort to help despite of the end of the result.
Happy that I can see a humanity in my surround.
I really respect and appreciate all those kind of people and I think it will keep remain until for such a long timeeeeeeee..~
Regards
Everyone must be agree to the statement above.
It's a fact that no matter how great, smart, rich, and good a human is, there must be a time when we need other people's help.
At this time I want to talk about the aspect of helping other people.
Nowadays, to be honest I rarely see people who want to help other person sincerely.
I often see most of people want to help only when the problem is related to them or because of the hidden things they want.
Lot of people thought that other people's problem is not something they have to think or take a part at all.
Well it maybe sounds normal since this life has really provides so much problems to ourself, so maybe we don't have a time to take a part at other people's problem.
But some stories make my own perspective about this.
I have some stories about this aspect, although these stories happended in the past.
It was at my collegue time at about 3 years ago.
I was given an individual project by my lecturer at my university.
Honestly that lesson was a difficult subject at that term, and furthermore I'm not a person who has a smart brain so it really getting more difficult to finish the task.
I was searching at internet about that subject, but still I could not make a big difference since I'm not clever enough maybe.
I just getting frustation and desperate because of the deadline was getting closer.
I asked for a help to many persons including my classmates and my senior.
It didn't get better so much, since my classmates were also very busy with their project too, and also my seniors only just answered a little of my question.
I was just getting confused and I was searching other person again.
I looked up at my contact and I found one of my highscholl friend that took the same majors with me but he studied at different university.
Let me tell my relation and background with this friend first.
We're highschool best friend.
I played and spent a lot of time with him.
Honestly at the highschool it can be said that I'm far smarter than him.
I always teached him at many subjects and maybe it can said that I has a better score than him at all the subject at the school.
However still, I try to help him since he's one of my close friend eventhough at that time it looked like that there's nothing that I can ask for his help.
Backagain at my story of the task.
I try to asked for the help from my friend because I wasn't longer know who I could ask for help.
How was the result ?
Yeah, he wanted to help me a lot.
He asked me the problem very detail and he did some of the parts of my task.
It really made situation became very better than before.
He helped me to do my task for many hours at that night and he did it like it was his own project.
My project became had a significant progress and I said big thankyou for him and then he replied "Okayy, tommorow just chat me again if there's other problem appears".
At the next 2 days I chatted him again for his help because the deadline is just about tommorow and sadly many problems appeared again and I couldn't fix it.
My friend did it exactly the same as before, he helped me a lot.
Even at that time, it took longer than before.
We did my project for lot of hours even until the midnight.
My task finally finished at that late of night and I was really glad.
I said this to my friend "Hey, I'm really really thank you to you because I already don't know who I can ask for help, I'm sorry to make you help me even until this late of night"
What just he replied ? It really made touchful.
He replied "Take it easy vin, I used to always asked for your help when we were in the highschool and now it's my turn to help you. Just chat me anytime when you have this problem again, I will help you as much as I can".
At that moment I just speechless for a time.
Before, I never imagined that I will ask for the help from the person that used to asked for my help.
This wheel of the life really can spin !
I was really grateful because the help that I did in the past could give me such this kind of thing.
However, I think it's not fair if at this aspect I just only talk about the position when we are the one who ask for help.
I have some story when I was in the position that I was being asked for the help.
At my collegue time I was ever being asked by some of my friends and my junior to taught them at some subject.
At first, everything sounds normal when I could try to help as much as I could.
But I just felt different when I was in a difficult situation too.
I was ever being asked to taught my junior for the exam despite of I had an exam to the next day.
I had sacrifice my plan to studied earlier 2 days before the exam to taught my junior, but I was still asked to taught at the day before the exam day.
I admit it that it annoyed me a little, If I spend this day to taught, how about my exam tommorow ? I could not study if I had to taught them.
Also I ever asked by my classmate to help or teach them a lesson.
I ever felt strange about it, at that time I was also a bad situation since my own task haven't finished and the subject that they asked to me was a difficult subject.
Because I knew that those people who asked my help have some close friend that far clever than me, sometimes I asked why it always me that always must help in spite of there were many people who had better situation and who has a bigger chance to help?
Yes, honestly I ever felt that I was a little bit confused when I was being asked for the help at the time when I had a bad situation.
So what is the conclusion ?
People must be have so many different opinions.
From the stories above and all other experiences I have, I have my own opinion and it will remain at my perspective.
It's true that we can not help other people anytime and anywhere since we must be have our problems in our life.
But when you have a chance to help others, we have to help as much as we can.
Even at some cases when we help other people and there's no rewards we got, it still a right things.
What's wrong with that ?
Helping other people is not such a bad thing right ?
We have to help when the situation is possible, because in my opinion if we have a big chance to help but we don't want to do it, it means the same that we're the cause of the problem.
Deep but true I think.
There's more things about this aspect.
First, always appreciate about other people's kindness.
There are some cases that the people who asked for help didn't have any respect.
They only focus with the result, when other people have given their best effort but still don't give so much difference, the people who asked for a help sometimes went fastly without even say thank you.
They don't think about the intention and the effort that other people has given, maybe it can be one of the reason many people become lazy to help.
So I think we have still to respect and appreciate other people's intention to help despite of the result.
Also there are so many ways to help other people.
So many kind of things that you never think that it can be considered as a help.
For some of my friends that ever have a time to sharing and have a long chat/talk with me maybe realize at the end of the conversation I often said "Thank you for the long conversation that we done".
It sounds like not so much thing maybe, but for me who has a lot of such a situation, I really mean it.
I really thankful to that and I think that's a kind of helping me.
I really say thankyou with a big mean not only as a formality.
There are many kinds of ways of helping other people that maybe we don't realize.
For us who are being asked for a help, maybe we think the problem or a hand that we give is just a small thing and doesn't make a great effect, but maybe for the one who ask for a help it can be means so much.
Well, this post become a very long stories.
Since I'm quite interested at this aspect.
I'm quite thankful because at the moment , I still see some of people that intend to help other people without expecting any rewards.
Also some people who always appreciate other people's intention and effort to help despite of the end of the result.
Happy that I can see a humanity in my surround.
I really respect and appreciate all those kind of people and I think it will keep remain until for such a long timeeeeeeee..~
Regards
A Coincidence That Makes Me Surprised
I just have a coincidence at this day.
What is that ?
I took 3 days break to come back to Jakarta to spend a little time with my family.
I just walk arround at one place here.
Suddenly I saw a person I knew.
Well it must be sounds very common.
However I just feel surprise by that because there's a story behind it.
A person that I met today is a person that the last time I seen (him/her) at about 2 years ago.
It's quite long time.
Still very common ? Of course.
What's so special about it ?
Well, this person actually is a person that I admire and become one of my idol.
Is (he/she) an public figure ? an artist or an actor ?
No, (he/she) is a normal people.
What I admire from this person is the way (he/she) live.
This person have some good stories in (his/her) life.
Eventhough I don't have a chance to spend so much time with (him/her), I know that (he/she) is fighting so hard in this world.
I saw that (he/she) has found a way to make life become better.
Although maybe it's still a long way to become success and for now (he/she) still have to work very hard, but at least there's a way to make it happen, and it can be (his/her) enthusiast to achieve (his/her) goal.
(He/She) has a same perspective in this life, seeing this life is so hard.
I admire (his/her mentality).
(He/She) seems has a very high spirit to work and to reach (his/her) goal and also never give up and so many other description that I can not write.
I just like the way (he/she) live.
That's why I feel surprise when I saw (him/her) today.
Because I thought I would never see (him/her) again.
It's such a pity that I can't keep our relationship the same.
Because once again, the passing of time and the far of distance make my relation with other person change and is not as nice as the past.
Eventhough like that, I'm still looking for a little time to speak with (him/her) or just only to give a regards.
Unfortunately, (he/she) is working at that time and very busy by the time I saw (him/her).
It makes me leave without saying a single word to (him/her).
However I'm quite happy by this coincidence.
Although maybe that person has forgot about me, but it makes me glad to see (him/her) doing well.
Just seeing (he/she) is still doing (his/her) best is such a little grace for me.
It can be become my spirit, "Come on, that person is still doing (his/her) best to fighting this life, you have to do it as well, don't lose to that person, Just keep on doing your best !
Regards
What is that ?
I took 3 days break to come back to Jakarta to spend a little time with my family.
I just walk arround at one place here.
Suddenly I saw a person I knew.
Well it must be sounds very common.
However I just feel surprise by that because there's a story behind it.
A person that I met today is a person that the last time I seen (him/her) at about 2 years ago.
It's quite long time.
Still very common ? Of course.
What's so special about it ?
Well, this person actually is a person that I admire and become one of my idol.
Is (he/she) an public figure ? an artist or an actor ?
No, (he/she) is a normal people.
What I admire from this person is the way (he/she) live.
This person have some good stories in (his/her) life.
Eventhough I don't have a chance to spend so much time with (him/her), I know that (he/she) is fighting so hard in this world.
I saw that (he/she) has found a way to make life become better.
Although maybe it's still a long way to become success and for now (he/she) still have to work very hard, but at least there's a way to make it happen, and it can be (his/her) enthusiast to achieve (his/her) goal.
(He/She) has a same perspective in this life, seeing this life is so hard.
I admire (his/her mentality).
(He/She) seems has a very high spirit to work and to reach (his/her) goal and also never give up and so many other description that I can not write.
I just like the way (he/she) live.
That's why I feel surprise when I saw (him/her) today.
Because I thought I would never see (him/her) again.
It's such a pity that I can't keep our relationship the same.
Because once again, the passing of time and the far of distance make my relation with other person change and is not as nice as the past.
Eventhough like that, I'm still looking for a little time to speak with (him/her) or just only to give a regards.
Unfortunately, (he/she) is working at that time and very busy by the time I saw (him/her).
It makes me leave without saying a single word to (him/her).
However I'm quite happy by this coincidence.
Although maybe that person has forgot about me, but it makes me glad to see (him/her) doing well.
Just seeing (he/she) is still doing (his/her) best is such a little grace for me.
It can be become my spirit, "Come on, that person is still doing (his/her) best to fighting this life, you have to do it as well, don't lose to that person, Just keep on doing your best !
Regards
Injustice In This Life
Have you ever heard this statement ?
"Life is not fair".
I bet all of you must be ever heard this statements many times.
Do you agree to that statement ?
We must be feel that statement especially when you're comparing your life to others.
Actually I admit it might be a wrong thing when we comparing our life to other people's life, because there's must be someone who has better situation than us for each aspects.
It's not something that actually we have to done, because we will feel less thankful because of that.
However, as a human, there must be a time for questioning all the things.
When I saw lot of people have a good life by their hardwork, I don't wonder and think anything strange about it, since they deserve to got it based on their great effort.
but how about if it was not because of their big effort ?
Still, some random thoughts ever come up to my mind.
How can be there's someone who has a genious brain since they were born but there's someone who has low IQ and has a difficulty to understand many things ?
How can be there's someone who born wealthy since they were born and got everything they want while there's someone who was born in poor family and has a very hard situation since a little age ?
How can be there's someone who has a chance to make so many friends and have a normal youth time while there's someone who could not spend their young life as a normal teenager ?
How can be there's someone who can always see and chat with their love for every minute while there's someone has a very difficulty to have only such a little time with the person they love ?
How can be there's someone who is appreciated so much by lot of people because of their status while there's someone got rejected and underestimated by many people because of their appereance ?
How can be there's someone who has a happy family and there's someone who don't know their family since they were born ?
How can be there's someone who was born perfect while there's someone who was born with disable physique ?
How can be someone who do a unhealthy lifestyle have a good health but someone who run healthy lifestyle suddenly got incurable disease ?
How can be there's someone who has so many people that care and always ready to help solving their problem while there's someone who got no one person who cares about their problem ?
Is that a justice ?
Why can be those so much difference in this life ?
How can be life become so cruel ?
Honestly I don't know why at this world that's so many stories and injustice like that.
One thing that I know is the way to respond it.
Maybe we must not ever our life to other people, since it can make us feel very angry.
Just keep a humanity in your surround as much as you can, appreciate and show respect to every people, including the people who (maybe) lower than you.
Well if you're still questioning "why life isn't fair" ?
I think there's one best answer about it :
Because That's How Life Supposed To Be Goes By.
Regards
"Life is not fair".
I bet all of you must be ever heard this statements many times.
Do you agree to that statement ?
We must be feel that statement especially when you're comparing your life to others.
Actually I admit it might be a wrong thing when we comparing our life to other people's life, because there's must be someone who has better situation than us for each aspects.
It's not something that actually we have to done, because we will feel less thankful because of that.
However, as a human, there must be a time for questioning all the things.
When I saw lot of people have a good life by their hardwork, I don't wonder and think anything strange about it, since they deserve to got it based on their great effort.
but how about if it was not because of their big effort ?
Still, some random thoughts ever come up to my mind.
How can be there's someone who has a genious brain since they were born but there's someone who has low IQ and has a difficulty to understand many things ?
How can be there's someone who born wealthy since they were born and got everything they want while there's someone who was born in poor family and has a very hard situation since a little age ?
How can be there's someone who has a chance to make so many friends and have a normal youth time while there's someone who could not spend their young life as a normal teenager ?
How can be there's someone who can always see and chat with their love for every minute while there's someone has a very difficulty to have only such a little time with the person they love ?
How can be there's someone who is appreciated so much by lot of people because of their status while there's someone got rejected and underestimated by many people because of their appereance ?
How can be there's someone who has a happy family and there's someone who don't know their family since they were born ?
How can be there's someone who was born perfect while there's someone who was born with disable physique ?
How can be someone who do a unhealthy lifestyle have a good health but someone who run healthy lifestyle suddenly got incurable disease ?
How can be there's someone who has so many people that care and always ready to help solving their problem while there's someone who got no one person who cares about their problem ?
Is that a justice ?
Why can be those so much difference in this life ?
How can be life become so cruel ?
Honestly I don't know why at this world that's so many stories and injustice like that.
One thing that I know is the way to respond it.
Maybe we must not ever our life to other people, since it can make us feel very angry.
Just keep a humanity in your surround as much as you can, appreciate and show respect to every people, including the people who (maybe) lower than you.
Well if you're still questioning "why life isn't fair" ?
I think there's one best answer about it :
Because That's How Life Supposed To Be Goes By.
Regards
Favourite Job That You Will Choose
We have to work in order to survive in this world.
In order to get money that you can use to survive and repair or make your life become better.
There are lot of ways for us to search for that money.
Yes so many jobs that we can choose.
To choose a job, all of us must be considering the amount of money that we will get from the job we choose.
We have to make sure that our income is enough for ur needs, so we can not choose a job carelessly, even maybe that job is the job that we very like.
Now I'm asking you this question :
If all the jobs in this world will give the same income to you, which job you will pick ?
Of course we will choose our favourite job.
but what is that job ?
Actually I'm quite confuse to answer that question too.
but I think there's some jobs that come to my mind if I will get the same income from every job and I just need to think about the experience that I will get from that job.
First, I will choose a language translator.
I really like studying english language but unfortunately my english is far from perfect.
Sometimes I don't know the vocabulary of many english words, and I can't 100% talking smoothly with foreigner for a long time.
If I choose this job, it can force me to study english more and I will get more experience in speaking english.
If that's so, I think there's a chance that my english can be far better than my current skill, it's something that I really want !
It doesn't kill the possibility that I will learn any language from many country.
If I imagine I pick this job and learn many languages, in the future I can fluently speak many languages, It's really cool !
Second, I will choose world tour leader.
Most of people said that this job is totally fun.
Yes they must be said "being a tour leader is totally fun, you get a holiday and you get paid for that".
Well actually I know that being tour leader is not as fun as they said.
It must be a difficult part of it.
Being tour leader will demand us to have a good stamina and a good health.
When you're traveling from the early morning until the night everyday for a period, maybe a week or 2 weeks, of course it will waste your stamina.
If your body is not strong, you will get sick easily, but a tour leader must be very energetic in front of the customers.
Also there's a possibility that you will face annoying customers, you have to handle your guest's complaint with a smile.
More of it, when you're visiting some place, you can't just easily enjoy the time, you must ready to see for your guests and have an intention to help customers taking their photo because it's the common thing when people in holiday.
Yes, there's a big responsibility for becoming a tour leader, but I think become a tour leader can give me a lot of experiences.
I can go to many countries and have a chance to see lot of beautiful places in this world, eventhough maybe I don't have a holiday but still I can feel the atmosphere in many place outside this country, that can be a really precious experience !
And also it will help to improve my soft skill, because I can meet lot of people, I can learn to handle some people because for sure there will be so many different types of people that I will have to face.
Third, I will choose kidinthegarden teacher.
It's weird ? Are you sure ? Why you choose this job ?
Well I guest many people will ask that question to me, because it sounds very funny and being kidinthegarden teacher is not special.
Well I have a reason why I want to choose this job.
The main reason why I choose this job is I will get the duty to smile all over the time.
Being the kidinthegarden teacher, we have to handle lot of kids patiently and also we must face all those kids with a smile since they are still very little age.
I'm person that have a difficulty to be happy and smile all the time, because the problems that I have often comes to my mind at most of my time.
With this job, I think it will help me to used to smile everytime due to the duty, and seeing lot of little children maybe can make me to not thinking so much about my problems.
Also on the other side, it can improve your "skill" to face a little children and it can be a training for you to become a parent in the future LOL.
I think that's all the jobs that I want to choose if I can get lot of money from every jobs.
Actually maybe that's some jobs that still very fun, for example being a footballer or a singer.
Despite of my ability that I need at that jobs, it's really fun to work with our hobby.
However that's one thing that I have to consider from that jobs.
Being a profesional footballer or a singer will make you become a public figure.
That's something that I don't really like, because I don't want my privacy life become a topic in public news.
At true world, choosing a job is not as easy like that.
Even at current situation, I still confuse to find a job that really fit for me, a job that can make I have a good income, a job that suit to my passion, and a job that have a valuable thing, a job that have a good balance of work life, and a job that give me a chance to have a great experiences.
Despite of my difficult situation , I saw lot of people with different jobs that become success.
A person who run a restaurant, a person who run the expedition business, a person who run the startup in technology aspect, a person who run multi level marketing business even a person who has his/her own online shop, and lot of other jobs.
When I saw all that people, I just feel that in this world there are so many jobs available for you that you can take to make your life become better, so many ways that you can take to become a successfull person.
Sometimes it can build up my anthusiast.
I just hope that I will immadiately find a job that can make my lifetime become better.
It's really my biggest dream to have a wealthy financial in order to have a happy life.
Well whatever the job that we choose, there's one thing for sure.
It's not as easy as we see to become a successfull person
We have to work very hard to get success in our job.
Hard work, passion,ability to see a chance,bravery to take a risk,commitment to our job and luck are some factors of it.
Just wish that I can be that kind of successfull person in the future.
Regards
In order to get money that you can use to survive and repair or make your life become better.
There are lot of ways for us to search for that money.
Yes so many jobs that we can choose.
To choose a job, all of us must be considering the amount of money that we will get from the job we choose.
We have to make sure that our income is enough for ur needs, so we can not choose a job carelessly, even maybe that job is the job that we very like.
Now I'm asking you this question :
If all the jobs in this world will give the same income to you, which job you will pick ?
Of course we will choose our favourite job.
but what is that job ?
Actually I'm quite confuse to answer that question too.
but I think there's some jobs that come to my mind if I will get the same income from every job and I just need to think about the experience that I will get from that job.
First, I will choose a language translator.
I really like studying english language but unfortunately my english is far from perfect.
Sometimes I don't know the vocabulary of many english words, and I can't 100% talking smoothly with foreigner for a long time.
If I choose this job, it can force me to study english more and I will get more experience in speaking english.
If that's so, I think there's a chance that my english can be far better than my current skill, it's something that I really want !
It doesn't kill the possibility that I will learn any language from many country.
If I imagine I pick this job and learn many languages, in the future I can fluently speak many languages, It's really cool !
Second, I will choose world tour leader.
Most of people said that this job is totally fun.
Yes they must be said "being a tour leader is totally fun, you get a holiday and you get paid for that".
Well actually I know that being tour leader is not as fun as they said.
It must be a difficult part of it.
Being tour leader will demand us to have a good stamina and a good health.
When you're traveling from the early morning until the night everyday for a period, maybe a week or 2 weeks, of course it will waste your stamina.
If your body is not strong, you will get sick easily, but a tour leader must be very energetic in front of the customers.
Also there's a possibility that you will face annoying customers, you have to handle your guest's complaint with a smile.
More of it, when you're visiting some place, you can't just easily enjoy the time, you must ready to see for your guests and have an intention to help customers taking their photo because it's the common thing when people in holiday.
Yes, there's a big responsibility for becoming a tour leader, but I think become a tour leader can give me a lot of experiences.
I can go to many countries and have a chance to see lot of beautiful places in this world, eventhough maybe I don't have a holiday but still I can feel the atmosphere in many place outside this country, that can be a really precious experience !
And also it will help to improve my soft skill, because I can meet lot of people, I can learn to handle some people because for sure there will be so many different types of people that I will have to face.
Third, I will choose kidinthegarden teacher.
It's weird ? Are you sure ? Why you choose this job ?
Well I guest many people will ask that question to me, because it sounds very funny and being kidinthegarden teacher is not special.
Well I have a reason why I want to choose this job.
The main reason why I choose this job is I will get the duty to smile all over the time.
Being the kidinthegarden teacher, we have to handle lot of kids patiently and also we must face all those kids with a smile since they are still very little age.
I'm person that have a difficulty to be happy and smile all the time, because the problems that I have often comes to my mind at most of my time.
With this job, I think it will help me to used to smile everytime due to the duty, and seeing lot of little children maybe can make me to not thinking so much about my problems.
Also on the other side, it can improve your "skill" to face a little children and it can be a training for you to become a parent in the future LOL.
I think that's all the jobs that I want to choose if I can get lot of money from every jobs.
Actually maybe that's some jobs that still very fun, for example being a footballer or a singer.
Despite of my ability that I need at that jobs, it's really fun to work with our hobby.
However that's one thing that I have to consider from that jobs.
Being a profesional footballer or a singer will make you become a public figure.
That's something that I don't really like, because I don't want my privacy life become a topic in public news.
At true world, choosing a job is not as easy like that.
Even at current situation, I still confuse to find a job that really fit for me, a job that can make I have a good income, a job that suit to my passion, and a job that have a valuable thing, a job that have a good balance of work life, and a job that give me a chance to have a great experiences.
Despite of my difficult situation , I saw lot of people with different jobs that become success.
A person who run a restaurant, a person who run the expedition business, a person who run the startup in technology aspect, a person who run multi level marketing business even a person who has his/her own online shop, and lot of other jobs.
When I saw all that people, I just feel that in this world there are so many jobs available for you that you can take to make your life become better, so many ways that you can take to become a successfull person.
Sometimes it can build up my anthusiast.
I just hope that I will immadiately find a job that can make my lifetime become better.
It's really my biggest dream to have a wealthy financial in order to have a happy life.
Well whatever the job that we choose, there's one thing for sure.
It's not as easy as we see to become a successfull person
We have to work very hard to get success in our job.
Hard work, passion,ability to see a chance,bravery to take a risk,commitment to our job and luck are some factors of it.
Just wish that I can be that kind of successfull person in the future.
Regards
The Feeling When You're Loving Someone
Valentine day is identic with "Love".
Yes lot of people in this world celebrate this day especially for a couple
They express their love with many ways.
For example they give flower or chocolate to each other, or have a romantic valentine dinner.
It's sweet ?
Well love is sweet after all.
At this year I don't celebrate valentine because I don't have a girlfriend at this time.
It's sad ? well actually I don't feel sad or desperate at all lol, even I forgot that today is valentine day until I saw lot of posts about valentine day at social media.
Instead, since this is valentine day, I think I just want to write some words of my thoughts about love.
There are lot kinds of feeling that you will have at the moment when you're falling in love.
Maybe I don't have a girlfriend at this time, but at least I still remember and I know how is the feeling when you're loving someone.
When you're falling in love, the person who you love will be looked more beautiful in your eyes than usual.
As a boy, I just feel that.
The face of the girl you love is looked more beautiful than the first time you met her.
You will see her as a very interesting person.
You will hope to spend so much time with the person you love.
She will be looked more beautiful than anyone else.
My way of loving someone is maybe different with many people.
At my current life, they "search" from the beginning.
Especially for many boys, they looked for a girl that maybe has a quite good face and suit to their type, and then they started to find the ways to get closer with their target.
Well I have to admit it that maybe with that way, people will get their love faster than my way.
But to be honest I never used that way even only once.
Whenever I see a girl that maybe has a pretty face, I still don't have any intention to trying make her became my love, since I never believe falling in love at first sight.
All the girls that I ever loved is a person that at the beginning I never think or expect to be a person that I love.
It takes a time until I fall in love with her.
How can it be like that ?
I think love is nurtured by the time I spent with her, indeed !
From just a person that you didn't know at all, became a person that you knew a little, became a friend, and finally became a person you love.
I think it was a very interesing change.
The power of falling in love is unpredictly very strong.
When it happens, sometimes you can do something that out of your mind.
Yes, maybe it happened to me just like that.
I often slept late only to have a late night conversation with her, and I think about her before I sleep, even when I have other big problem that disturbed my mind, there's still a little time that I think about her, I love her voice, and most of all I love her smile especially when she's smilling at me.
On her big day that she had to face her big challenge, I prayed for her, that's the first time I mentioned someone's name in my pray except of my family, and when I saw that she had passed her challenge, I became very glad and very happy although I couldn't come to her side at her important day.
It's really powerful when I remembered that time.
There are some moments that I still remember which make me feel confuse and smile sometimes when I remember myself at that time.
However I think love is more complicated now.
I just realize there are many factors that we have to consider about before having a love.
Religion factor, background factor, family factor, and most of all economy factor.
At the past I just consider about matching factor without considering those other factors, seemly immature of me yes.
That's why at this time, If I could control my feeling, I would like to choose to not loving someone..
I realize that my current situation is very imposibble to be falling in love, because with my current condition that's a big chance that it will only become a failure.
I just said the power of loving someone is very strong.
When your relationship is doing well, you will feel extremely very happy and you can smile a lot because of that.
But how about if it fails ?
You will become disappointed surely, and that pain can be very strong.
Yes, I just don't want to feel the failure in love again.
Eventhough I have such many beautiful memories, I have such a difficult time too.
I don't want to feel that painful feeling again honestly.
When I just can see the face of the person I love from social media because of the far distance, when I see there are so many people that can spend so much time with her but I just can meet her only just for a moment at many months, when I have to asked someone that better than me to help her because I couldn't help very much to solve her problem.
I won't feel sad if I don't have a girlfriend because indeed there's no one that I love.
But it really can make very sad if there's someone I love, but I just can't make a close relationship or have a chance to spend so much time her.
It's really something that as possible I don't want to feel again.
Sometimes I ask myself : "Can I have it ?".
Can I have that happiness, the blessing of mutual love, a family, a gift in my life.
Will I be able to get married in the future ?
Since there are so many things that we have to fulfill in order to get all those happiness.
Whether I can find a mutual love and all those factors that I have mentioned above.
Me myself don't know at all since I can not predict my future.
Well I just hope that I can do my best to make my condition become possible to be loving someone.
Since I want to feel that very emotional and precious feeling again,
The Feeling When You're Loving Someone.
Well as the closing, I think I have to congratulate all people who celebrate this valentine day.
Happy Valentine Day:)
Regards
Yes lot of people in this world celebrate this day especially for a couple
They express their love with many ways.
For example they give flower or chocolate to each other, or have a romantic valentine dinner.
It's sweet ?
Well love is sweet after all.
At this year I don't celebrate valentine because I don't have a girlfriend at this time.
It's sad ? well actually I don't feel sad or desperate at all lol, even I forgot that today is valentine day until I saw lot of posts about valentine day at social media.
Instead, since this is valentine day, I think I just want to write some words of my thoughts about love.
There are lot kinds of feeling that you will have at the moment when you're falling in love.
Maybe I don't have a girlfriend at this time, but at least I still remember and I know how is the feeling when you're loving someone.
When you're falling in love, the person who you love will be looked more beautiful in your eyes than usual.
As a boy, I just feel that.
The face of the girl you love is looked more beautiful than the first time you met her.
You will see her as a very interesting person.
You will hope to spend so much time with the person you love.
She will be looked more beautiful than anyone else.
My way of loving someone is maybe different with many people.
At my current life, they "search" from the beginning.
Especially for many boys, they looked for a girl that maybe has a quite good face and suit to their type, and then they started to find the ways to get closer with their target.
Well I have to admit it that maybe with that way, people will get their love faster than my way.
But to be honest I never used that way even only once.
Whenever I see a girl that maybe has a pretty face, I still don't have any intention to trying make her became my love, since I never believe falling in love at first sight.
All the girls that I ever loved is a person that at the beginning I never think or expect to be a person that I love.
It takes a time until I fall in love with her.
How can it be like that ?
I think love is nurtured by the time I spent with her, indeed !
From just a person that you didn't know at all, became a person that you knew a little, became a friend, and finally became a person you love.
I think it was a very interesing change.
The power of falling in love is unpredictly very strong.
When it happens, sometimes you can do something that out of your mind.
Yes, maybe it happened to me just like that.
I often slept late only to have a late night conversation with her, and I think about her before I sleep, even when I have other big problem that disturbed my mind, there's still a little time that I think about her, I love her voice, and most of all I love her smile especially when she's smilling at me.
On her big day that she had to face her big challenge, I prayed for her, that's the first time I mentioned someone's name in my pray except of my family, and when I saw that she had passed her challenge, I became very glad and very happy although I couldn't come to her side at her important day.
It's really powerful when I remembered that time.
There are some moments that I still remember which make me feel confuse and smile sometimes when I remember myself at that time.
However I think love is more complicated now.
I just realize there are many factors that we have to consider about before having a love.
Religion factor, background factor, family factor, and most of all economy factor.
At the past I just consider about matching factor without considering those other factors, seemly immature of me yes.
That's why at this time, If I could control my feeling, I would like to choose to not loving someone..
I realize that my current situation is very imposibble to be falling in love, because with my current condition that's a big chance that it will only become a failure.
I just said the power of loving someone is very strong.
When your relationship is doing well, you will feel extremely very happy and you can smile a lot because of that.
But how about if it fails ?
You will become disappointed surely, and that pain can be very strong.
Yes, I just don't want to feel the failure in love again.
Eventhough I have such many beautiful memories, I have such a difficult time too.
I don't want to feel that painful feeling again honestly.
When I just can see the face of the person I love from social media because of the far distance, when I see there are so many people that can spend so much time with her but I just can meet her only just for a moment at many months, when I have to asked someone that better than me to help her because I couldn't help very much to solve her problem.
I won't feel sad if I don't have a girlfriend because indeed there's no one that I love.
But it really can make very sad if there's someone I love, but I just can't make a close relationship or have a chance to spend so much time her.
It's really something that as possible I don't want to feel again.
Sometimes I ask myself : "Can I have it ?".
Can I have that happiness, the blessing of mutual love, a family, a gift in my life.
Will I be able to get married in the future ?
Since there are so many things that we have to fulfill in order to get all those happiness.
Whether I can find a mutual love and all those factors that I have mentioned above.
Me myself don't know at all since I can not predict my future.
Well I just hope that I can do my best to make my condition become possible to be loving someone.
Since I want to feel that very emotional and precious feeling again,
The Feeling When You're Loving Someone.
Well as the closing, I think I have to congratulate all people who celebrate this valentine day.
Happy Valentine Day:)
Regards
A Day Dreamer and A Night Thinker
What is the difference between ourself at the night and in the day ?
Do you see the difference or do you feel that difference in yourself ?
Well maybe some of you don't understand my question,
Is a person's feeling become different between at the day and in the night ?
I just feel that difference.
It because at the day that I face many problems.
Many challenges, many works, many many things that I have to face.
Sometimes I feel happy, but sometimes I feel sad, and there are lot of times that I feel stressed because of the problem I have.
I ever felt scared, I felt the pressure, and lot of feelings that I couldn't describe.
At the night it changes.
Yes I often use my night time to have a me time.
A time to review all of my day and release all of things that disturb my mind.
It's a time that I need.
Even when I felt stressed, I took a long time to have such a time like this.
I ever spent 1 hour at the shower while most of that time I spent with just only standing and let the water spray poured over my face so I couldn't see my own tears falling down from my own eyes.
I ever spent 4 hours at the night until midnight only just for listening music.
I vivified a lot of songs to my feeling, to help me to forget all the things that I face, in order to make my heart calm.
I used an instrument sad song to help me heal my feeling, and used inspirational song to provoke my spirit and enthusiasm to face the next day that would come.
It's strange for you ? haha maybe
But for me I think it's a time that I need once in a time to let all my problem go out from my mind.
It makes me become a little fun and can sleep well.
Yes I think I love to have this kind of time.
Well you can say that I maybe a night thinker.
In my opinion I'm that kind a person, because at the night I used to review all my story by the day.
However that's something that I want to be.
A day dreamer.
Yes I want to be a day dreamer too.
Because sometimes I think that my good feeling and my spirit that I got from my me time sometimes can easily gone when I felt stuck to face my problem.
Somehow I feel that I haven't give all my best to face this world to fight for our life.
At the end, I want to do it every day and become my daily routine.
I want to be a fully day dreamer, become a person who give totally all my best to face all the issues and the challenges that I have to face.
And become a night dreamer everyday, to review all my activities at the day and calm my mind and let all the matters out from my head.
Hope to be like that..
Regards
Do you see the difference or do you feel that difference in yourself ?
Well maybe some of you don't understand my question,
Is a person's feeling become different between at the day and in the night ?
I just feel that difference.
It because at the day that I face many problems.
Many challenges, many works, many many things that I have to face.
Sometimes I feel happy, but sometimes I feel sad, and there are lot of times that I feel stressed because of the problem I have.
I ever felt scared, I felt the pressure, and lot of feelings that I couldn't describe.
At the night it changes.
Yes I often use my night time to have a me time.
A time to review all of my day and release all of things that disturb my mind.
It's a time that I need.
Even when I felt stressed, I took a long time to have such a time like this.
I ever spent 1 hour at the shower while most of that time I spent with just only standing and let the water spray poured over my face so I couldn't see my own tears falling down from my own eyes.
I ever spent 4 hours at the night until midnight only just for listening music.
I vivified a lot of songs to my feeling, to help me to forget all the things that I face, in order to make my heart calm.
I used an instrument sad song to help me heal my feeling, and used inspirational song to provoke my spirit and enthusiasm to face the next day that would come.
It's strange for you ? haha maybe
But for me I think it's a time that I need once in a time to let all my problem go out from my mind.
It makes me become a little fun and can sleep well.
Yes I think I love to have this kind of time.
Well you can say that I maybe a night thinker.
In my opinion I'm that kind a person, because at the night I used to review all my story by the day.
However that's something that I want to be.
A day dreamer.
Yes I want to be a day dreamer too.
Because sometimes I think that my good feeling and my spirit that I got from my me time sometimes can easily gone when I felt stuck to face my problem.
Somehow I feel that I haven't give all my best to face this world to fight for our life.
At the end, I want to do it every day and become my daily routine.
I want to be a fully day dreamer, become a person who give totally all my best to face all the issues and the challenges that I have to face.
And become a night dreamer everyday, to review all my activities at the day and calm my mind and let all the matters out from my head.
Hope to be like that..
Regards
Positive Things In Every Person
This world is full of human, isn't it ?
However I believe in this world, there are not 2 people that have a totally same personality and same characteristic.
If there are 2000 humans, there are must be 2000 kinds of person.
It's a really great diverification yes.
Well this post may be the most unique post that I ever wrote.
At this chance, I want to write some characteristics and positive things from some people.
The people that I will write here are some friends that I think I have a quite close and good relationship with, In this case they are all my friends.
At this description, I will write the list of people randomly, and I will use anonym possession word (him/her), because in English if I use possession word clearly, You can know whether if It's is a man or a woman.
Here they are :
1st person :
This person is a person that want to help other, whenever (he/she) has a chance to help, (He/She) will give (his/her) best to help the problem, (He/She) won't give up easily and try to solve the problem like that's (his/her) own problem. This person is also a hardworking person, (He/She) always have a good preperation for a task and also have a high power struggle to face the challenge (He/She) has.
2nd person :
This person is a "Not Thinking So Much" Person. Well it must be very funny to read that, and maybe it sounds like a weakness, not a positive thing. Yeah, maybe it can be like that also, but this person is the person that won't angry easily with other people, (he/she) doesn't think so much about other people words or actions eventhough (maybe) the words can be so much to (him/her). This person is a person that I rarely see (him/her) have a bad mood, or sad feeling. Sometimes I see this person can always enjoy (his/her) life even when (he/she) had some problems. To be honest, sometimes I really want to be like (him/her) to become a person that doesn't easily offended or feel sad.
3th person :
This person I think is the humorous person, yes lol. Whenever I and my friends are with (him/her), there must be many laughs happen thanks to this person. This person can always find a joke that very funny, even from only a very little thing, (He/She) can make that little thing become a very funny joke. In spite of often making lot funny jokes, this person is an active person in our group, (He/She) can coordinate many people in our event and also (He/She) often takes a part in many different topics in our group.
4th person :
This person is a perfectsionist person, whenever (he/she) is planning or do something, (he/she) will consider all the possibility that may happen. What I admire from this person is (his/her) ability to smile everytime. At the first time I know (him/her), I though (he/she) has a "normal" life. After we got closer I know that (he/she) has a very terrible situation background, but (he/she) can keep smiling and friendly to other people. (He/She) is one of friend that always want to make a connection with me when the condition is possible and also a person who want to help other people and sharing many life lessons to me.
5th person :
This person is a person that I'm very comfortable to have a personal conversation with. In the past I often had many conversations with (him/her), we often had a funny thing in our conversation and it was like we understood each other style, We both know what we had to said to response the chat. It's just I'm "clicked" with (him/her). I ever lost contact with this person because the passing of time and a long distance, but one moment I started have a conversation with this person again. Actually I'm quite surprise that our conversation still can be fun,We chat like usual, and it's still as fun as before. Maybe our topic is different, but "our style" is still the same, Yes!! I really like our style XD. In the past we always talk about funny thing as two little children, but now we talk as 2 adult people, actually I'm quite surprise by seeing (she/he) has grown up a lot, but I think it's interesting, by the time we're seperated, we both grew up and now we started to have a connection again, and as two people who have grown up a lot than the last time we chatted in the past.
6th person :
This person is a slow person. Yes, (he/she) is often calm and slowly. (He/She) is a person that believe in (his/her) good friends. (He/She) often ask for and follow (his/her) friends advices. Also this person is a person that keep a conversation going on, whenever I talked with (him/her) , it usually can be a long talk, because this person often talk non stop for a time about the topic, (He/She) even often use a very small topic into a quite long conversation.
7th person :
This person is also a person that I'm comfortable to have a personal conversation with. I think that we also have our own style. At the past, I often chatted with (him/her) from very early morning until very late night. Because our conversation was really fun, I admit it that this person can make an conversation become very fun for a long time, that's why our chats are usually long chats. (He/She) is a flexsible person, at some time (he/she) can chat like an adult, we can talk about important discussion as adult, and other time (he/she) can talk like a child and have a funny discussion totally as a kid, I often have many jokes with (his/her), we mock each other but only just for fun and we can be laugh a lot with our chat, I feel that I can have many jokes with this person, something that (maybe) some of my friends didn't expect because they (maybe) see me as a very serious person.
8th person :
This person is a fun and easygoing person. This person can always be a friend with everyone as long as it's fun. (He/She) doesn't choosing a friend with any strange reason or with hidden things that (he/she want). So as long we're fun , this person can always have a fun connection and precious friendship. This person also want to coordinate (his/her) friends to play together.
9th person :
This person is a competitive person. (He/she) can always find a way to solve the problem. Actually I'm quite surprise that (he/she) has a very significant progress. This person has so much intention in some aspect, at a glance (he/she) looked like a person that didn't think too much about social aspect, but if you have had a close relationship with (him/her), you can see that (he/she) is a person who cares about (his/her) close friends. I'm quite sure that (he/she) will be a successfull person in the future with ability and skill that (he/she) has.
10th person :
This person is a person who has a sharp feeling. (He/She) always appreciate other people action, (He/She) often asked for other people help, even maybe sometimes we try to help but finally failed, (He/she) still highly appreciate our intention to help (him/her) despite of the failure of the result. Eventhough (he/she) has a very difficult situation in (his/her) life, this person always support (his/her) friends to success. This person is a person that I can believe to give my trust for sharing many of my experiences and my stories. (He/she) always remember about other people kindness and has an objective view of many things.
11th person :
This person is the most friendly friend that I ever had. (He/She) is always friendly to all people, eventhough I know that (he/she) currently has very difficult situation, but I'm really amazed by (his/her) friendliness, (he/she) can always smile in front of us and also (he/she) is a person that always want to help other person if the situation is possible. Whenever (he/she) have a free time, (he/she) is never lazy to help other person. Whenever I have a talk with (him/her), I become very thankful that I can have this person as one of my best friend, really.
12th person :
This person is a balance person, (he/she) has a quite good ability and personality in many aspects, eventhough maybe (he/she) is not very superior at all that aspects, but I think (he/she) is a good person that has really quite good things in every aspect. I remember the first time when I was acquainted with (him/her) and it just only take a few minutes to have a good relation. Do you remember my words that "The people that we easily envied of are our closest people" ?, Yes I don't feel that statement from this person at all, In my perspective, this person is a person that will feel very happy if (his/her) friends get a successfull things in whatever aspect, thats why most of people I know like (his/her) personality and until know I still haven't found anyone who doesn't like this person.
13th person :
This person is an talk active person. (He/she) can act as little child and also has funny style. I often mock up (his/her) explosive personality and just for fun. I have a far distance with this person, but this person is one of my close friend that still keep in touch with me. (He/She) have became more adult person than before even maybe sometimes (his/her) explosive personality still can be seen. This person never act cocky to me, and also want to have an contact with me.
14th person :
To be honest, at the first time I was not sure whether I have to write this person in my list or not, because I thought the relationship between me and (him/her) is not very close. This person is an ignorant person, (he/she) doesn't care so much about something that's not related with (him/her), and also I don't have so much chance to spend some times with this person. However at one moment, our relation is getting closer, I have a chance to make our relation become far better than before, and this time I'm sure that our relationship can be called as close friend. Eventhough I said this person is an ignorant person, but sometimes I can see that (he/she) become a person that have so much attention. Our style is very different from each other, but I feel that both of us now have started to understand each other difference, even though I admit that our personality is still not very matching, but I'm quite happy that it has been far better than before because we have known each other personality and we both know how to response that suit with ourselves. This person have an intention to start a little talk whenever (he/she) meet a new person even the person who is not very close with (him/her). (He/She) also has an interested personality, now I'm a kind of understand the reason why there's so much people that want to becoming (his/her) friends.
15th person :
In the past I often give a hand to this person, yes I help (him/her) a lot. But once in a time I'm the one who ask for (his/her) help (life is unpredictable yes !). (He/she) always want to help me. I know (him/her) as an silent person, but now I admit it that (he/she) become better than before. We talked about past time and the future, and we still talk like a best friend. We can keep in touch !
16th person :
This person has a quite good analytic ability, (he/she) is a clever person. This person can use that ability to analytic many things including other people personality. Once (he/she) like one aspect, (he/she) will analytic aspect deeply and follow it everyday, well to be honest I think there's a lot similiarity between my perspective in this live and (his/her perspective).
17th person :
This person is a talk active person. (He/She) can make an atmosphere in a conversation become more relax. (He/She) always have an intention to accost other people, that why (he/she) has so many relation. This person always give some laugh in a talk so (he/she) can get along with other people.
18th person :
This person has really good adaptation skill in social aspect. (He/She) can adjust (his/her) style based on who is the person (he/she) talk to. Whenever I talk with (him/her) I can feel very comfortable because this person really understand my personalisation, we often discuss about this life challenge, since (maybe) we're have a same situation about facing the future time, that's why we still can be bestfriend. I with (he/she) are always try to keep in touch with each other and promise not to lost contact. That's really something that I appreciate.
Well after wrote that list, for just a moment I felt that I has so many close friends, and I'm thankful about that. All the things that I wrote above is just my opinion. To be honest, I don't always have a good relation with all of those people, I admit it that sometimes I have a problem with many people on that list, sometimes I feel that our personality is different, and I feel that some people of that list ever hate me and maybe even until now, but I think its normal as a part of the close relationship because the closer the relationship between us and other person, that means the bigger chance for us to have a relation problem.
However for all of this I think it's important for me to thankful now because I have all those people as my close people, because when I still have a chance I think I should write all those positive things, because in a future we all don't know whether our relationship can be still the same.
Thank you for all of you.
Regards
However I believe in this world, there are not 2 people that have a totally same personality and same characteristic.
If there are 2000 humans, there are must be 2000 kinds of person.
It's a really great diverification yes.
Well this post may be the most unique post that I ever wrote.
At this chance, I want to write some characteristics and positive things from some people.
The people that I will write here are some friends that I think I have a quite close and good relationship with, In this case they are all my friends.
At this description, I will write the list of people randomly, and I will use anonym possession word (him/her), because in English if I use possession word clearly, You can know whether if It's is a man or a woman.
Here they are :
1st person :
This person is a person that want to help other, whenever (he/she) has a chance to help, (He/She) will give (his/her) best to help the problem, (He/She) won't give up easily and try to solve the problem like that's (his/her) own problem. This person is also a hardworking person, (He/She) always have a good preperation for a task and also have a high power struggle to face the challenge (He/She) has.
2nd person :
This person is a "Not Thinking So Much" Person. Well it must be very funny to read that, and maybe it sounds like a weakness, not a positive thing. Yeah, maybe it can be like that also, but this person is the person that won't angry easily with other people, (he/she) doesn't think so much about other people words or actions eventhough (maybe) the words can be so much to (him/her). This person is a person that I rarely see (him/her) have a bad mood, or sad feeling. Sometimes I see this person can always enjoy (his/her) life even when (he/she) had some problems. To be honest, sometimes I really want to be like (him/her) to become a person that doesn't easily offended or feel sad.
3th person :
This person I think is the humorous person, yes lol. Whenever I and my friends are with (him/her), there must be many laughs happen thanks to this person. This person can always find a joke that very funny, even from only a very little thing, (He/She) can make that little thing become a very funny joke. In spite of often making lot funny jokes, this person is an active person in our group, (He/She) can coordinate many people in our event and also (He/She) often takes a part in many different topics in our group.
4th person :
This person is a perfectsionist person, whenever (he/she) is planning or do something, (he/she) will consider all the possibility that may happen. What I admire from this person is (his/her) ability to smile everytime. At the first time I know (him/her), I though (he/she) has a "normal" life. After we got closer I know that (he/she) has a very terrible situation background, but (he/she) can keep smiling and friendly to other people. (He/She) is one of friend that always want to make a connection with me when the condition is possible and also a person who want to help other people and sharing many life lessons to me.
5th person :
This person is a person that I'm very comfortable to have a personal conversation with. In the past I often had many conversations with (him/her), we often had a funny thing in our conversation and it was like we understood each other style, We both know what we had to said to response the chat. It's just I'm "clicked" with (him/her). I ever lost contact with this person because the passing of time and a long distance, but one moment I started have a conversation with this person again. Actually I'm quite surprise that our conversation still can be fun,We chat like usual, and it's still as fun as before. Maybe our topic is different, but "our style" is still the same, Yes!! I really like our style XD. In the past we always talk about funny thing as two little children, but now we talk as 2 adult people, actually I'm quite surprise by seeing (she/he) has grown up a lot, but I think it's interesting, by the time we're seperated, we both grew up and now we started to have a connection again, and as two people who have grown up a lot than the last time we chatted in the past.
6th person :
This person is a slow person. Yes, (he/she) is often calm and slowly. (He/She) is a person that believe in (his/her) good friends. (He/She) often ask for and follow (his/her) friends advices. Also this person is a person that keep a conversation going on, whenever I talked with (him/her) , it usually can be a long talk, because this person often talk non stop for a time about the topic, (He/She) even often use a very small topic into a quite long conversation.
7th person :
This person is also a person that I'm comfortable to have a personal conversation with. I think that we also have our own style. At the past, I often chatted with (him/her) from very early morning until very late night. Because our conversation was really fun, I admit it that this person can make an conversation become very fun for a long time, that's why our chats are usually long chats. (He/She) is a flexsible person, at some time (he/she) can chat like an adult, we can talk about important discussion as adult, and other time (he/she) can talk like a child and have a funny discussion totally as a kid, I often have many jokes with (his/her), we mock each other but only just for fun and we can be laugh a lot with our chat, I feel that I can have many jokes with this person, something that (maybe) some of my friends didn't expect because they (maybe) see me as a very serious person.
8th person :
This person is a fun and easygoing person. This person can always be a friend with everyone as long as it's fun. (He/She) doesn't choosing a friend with any strange reason or with hidden things that (he/she want). So as long we're fun , this person can always have a fun connection and precious friendship. This person also want to coordinate (his/her) friends to play together.
9th person :
This person is a competitive person. (He/she) can always find a way to solve the problem. Actually I'm quite surprise that (he/she) has a very significant progress. This person has so much intention in some aspect, at a glance (he/she) looked like a person that didn't think too much about social aspect, but if you have had a close relationship with (him/her), you can see that (he/she) is a person who cares about (his/her) close friends. I'm quite sure that (he/she) will be a successfull person in the future with ability and skill that (he/she) has.
10th person :
This person is a person who has a sharp feeling. (He/She) always appreciate other people action, (He/She) often asked for other people help, even maybe sometimes we try to help but finally failed, (He/she) still highly appreciate our intention to help (him/her) despite of the failure of the result. Eventhough (he/she) has a very difficult situation in (his/her) life, this person always support (his/her) friends to success. This person is a person that I can believe to give my trust for sharing many of my experiences and my stories. (He/she) always remember about other people kindness and has an objective view of many things.
11th person :
This person is the most friendly friend that I ever had. (He/She) is always friendly to all people, eventhough I know that (he/she) currently has very difficult situation, but I'm really amazed by (his/her) friendliness, (he/she) can always smile in front of us and also (he/she) is a person that always want to help other person if the situation is possible. Whenever (he/she) have a free time, (he/she) is never lazy to help other person. Whenever I have a talk with (him/her), I become very thankful that I can have this person as one of my best friend, really.
12th person :
This person is a balance person, (he/she) has a quite good ability and personality in many aspects, eventhough maybe (he/she) is not very superior at all that aspects, but I think (he/she) is a good person that has really quite good things in every aspect. I remember the first time when I was acquainted with (him/her) and it just only take a few minutes to have a good relation. Do you remember my words that "The people that we easily envied of are our closest people" ?, Yes I don't feel that statement from this person at all, In my perspective, this person is a person that will feel very happy if (his/her) friends get a successfull things in whatever aspect, thats why most of people I know like (his/her) personality and until know I still haven't found anyone who doesn't like this person.
13th person :
This person is an talk active person. (He/she) can act as little child and also has funny style. I often mock up (his/her) explosive personality and just for fun. I have a far distance with this person, but this person is one of my close friend that still keep in touch with me. (He/She) have became more adult person than before even maybe sometimes (his/her) explosive personality still can be seen. This person never act cocky to me, and also want to have an contact with me.
14th person :
To be honest, at the first time I was not sure whether I have to write this person in my list or not, because I thought the relationship between me and (him/her) is not very close. This person is an ignorant person, (he/she) doesn't care so much about something that's not related with (him/her), and also I don't have so much chance to spend some times with this person. However at one moment, our relation is getting closer, I have a chance to make our relation become far better than before, and this time I'm sure that our relationship can be called as close friend. Eventhough I said this person is an ignorant person, but sometimes I can see that (he/she) become a person that have so much attention. Our style is very different from each other, but I feel that both of us now have started to understand each other difference, even though I admit that our personality is still not very matching, but I'm quite happy that it has been far better than before because we have known each other personality and we both know how to response that suit with ourselves. This person have an intention to start a little talk whenever (he/she) meet a new person even the person who is not very close with (him/her). (He/She) also has an interested personality, now I'm a kind of understand the reason why there's so much people that want to becoming (his/her) friends.
15th person :
In the past I often give a hand to this person, yes I help (him/her) a lot. But once in a time I'm the one who ask for (his/her) help (life is unpredictable yes !). (He/she) always want to help me. I know (him/her) as an silent person, but now I admit it that (he/she) become better than before. We talked about past time and the future, and we still talk like a best friend. We can keep in touch !
16th person :
This person has a quite good analytic ability, (he/she) is a clever person. This person can use that ability to analytic many things including other people personality. Once (he/she) like one aspect, (he/she) will analytic aspect deeply and follow it everyday, well to be honest I think there's a lot similiarity between my perspective in this live and (his/her perspective).
17th person :
This person is a talk active person. (He/She) can make an atmosphere in a conversation become more relax. (He/She) always have an intention to accost other people, that why (he/she) has so many relation. This person always give some laugh in a talk so (he/she) can get along with other people.
18th person :
This person has really good adaptation skill in social aspect. (He/She) can adjust (his/her) style based on who is the person (he/she) talk to. Whenever I talk with (him/her) I can feel very comfortable because this person really understand my personalisation, we often discuss about this life challenge, since (maybe) we're have a same situation about facing the future time, that's why we still can be bestfriend. I with (he/she) are always try to keep in touch with each other and promise not to lost contact. That's really something that I appreciate.
Well after wrote that list, for just a moment I felt that I has so many close friends, and I'm thankful about that. All the things that I wrote above is just my opinion. To be honest, I don't always have a good relation with all of those people, I admit it that sometimes I have a problem with many people on that list, sometimes I feel that our personality is different, and I feel that some people of that list ever hate me and maybe even until now, but I think its normal as a part of the close relationship because the closer the relationship between us and other person, that means the bigger chance for us to have a relation problem.
However for all of this I think it's important for me to thankful now because I have all those people as my close people, because when I still have a chance I think I should write all those positive things, because in a future we all don't know whether our relationship can be still the same.
Thank you for all of you.
Regards
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