I become don't have so much time to spare for telling my experience.
So many reasons that make me have less time than before.
Many tasks and many things that on my mind really took my time.
Since I have a little time this time, I want to write so deeply.
In this post, I will tell about my best person in my life so far.
Who is that person?
For most of the people arround my age maybe firstly will think that the person is my lover.
Well, I don't have a girlfriend at the moment, so it must be wrong.
My very best friend ?
Well sadly, I don't have one, maybe I have some best friends, but my relationship with all of them is not so very very deep like that.
Instead, that person is my father :)
Yes I really want to write so many things about him at this chance.
To be honest, My father and me have very opposite personality.
Unlike me, who is a sensitive person and always thinking more, my father is very ignorant person.
He never thinking so much about little things and stupid things that's not very important.
My father never ask my score or my grade even since I was in elementary school.
There's a time when I had a birthday and my father didn't wish me, but I just understand him, because sometimes my father forgot about his own birthday Lol.
Eventhough my father is an ignorant person, but still I can feel his affection so much.
He has many attention in some aspects especially if there's important things.
My father always think about his family when we told him our condition.
He has a very good control with his feeling, He think about important thing and didn't take so much about unimportant things.
That's why my father rarely feel sad because a little thing, (so much different with me yeah :D )
He is very hardworking person.
I never heard or feel the "lazy" word from my father.
He's working so hard to fulfill our family's needs.
My father worked in our store that far from our home.
It takes 1,5 hours from our home to the store.
When I was highschool, my mother stayed with us at our home, and my father worked at the store, He only came back home once every 3 days, because if my father back and forth everyday, He will feel very tired must be.
At that time, my father had so many times alone, especially after the works.
He need to cook and prepare food by himself after the work.
Even there was a time when my father had to back and forth 2 times a day to take our products.
So hard yes ?
But with all of that, I never heard or saw my father complained about that.
He always has a full spirit to do his duty.
Never ever think in his mind, he want to skip a day because he feel lazy.
He is a very responsible person.
To be think, our family has a quite good condition, we have a home, car, the children can go to quite good school, and thankfully we can have a chance to ever go holiday at some countries, all of that is thanks to my father.
His work give us all that blessings.
He's really our savior.
My father is very ignorant, but he is the most friendly person in our family.
He often start an conversation in our family and he gave us many jokes that made us smile.
Honestly, my father is not very hard to his children including me.
He never demand me to do hard things.
I know that maybe it makes me to not become a very great person who can do so many things.
But still I'm glad that I can feel the affetion of my father.
Honestly I can not imagined if my father being hard towards me, maybe it will make a chance that I can be a great person, but with like that, maybe I won't be very close to my father.
Like I saw at some movie that tell a story about a father who train his son hardly, that son maybe become a great person that can do many things, but he never laugh with his father and never have such a fun conversation or jokes with his father, I just can't imagined if I have that kind of relationship with my father.
I'm really thankful that my father has this character.
There's a time when my aunties had a conversation with my twin about choosing a man.
My aunties told my twin to search for a nice and good man, not only a rich man.
And all of my aunties gave my father as an example of that good man.
They're very sure about it.
I'm agree with all of my aunties
As a husband of my mother, my father is a very gentleman person.
He always keep my mother as much as he can.
My mother has a bad stamina and a trouble with her bones, so she could not walk for a long hours.
When our family went to holiday, there's a chance that my mother didn't want to walk to a place that requires to take stairs, so my mother want to wait at rest spot and wait for us to comeback after going to that place.
Actually I know that my father can go with us and see a wonderful view, but still he choose to wait for us and accompany my mother.
He did it so many times.
Even there's a time when our relative invite us to go holiday abroad.
At first all of my family want to accept that invitation.
But it was told that in that holiday we have to prepare for our stamina because we will need to walk for a far distance at many chances.
My mother finally decided to not take a part of it because she scared that she couldn't keep with it.
After that my father also decided to not take part of it, not because he's not strong enough with a long walk, but he want to company my mother at the home.
So touchful isn't it ?
He's willing for letting a rarely chance, just to company my mother.
My father is really care about my mother.
He's also a healthy person.
My father will turn 60 at the end of this year, but he has a very good health.
It because he has healthy lifestyle.
My father doesn't smoking or drinking beer or any other bad lifestyle.
He has enough sleep and eat healthy food properly almost everyday.
That's he rarely got sick and still has a good stamina.
I'm really thankful about it, because I still can not imagine if my father get serious disease, cause our family is still very need him.
He has a crucial role at our family indeed.
That's so many things that I can see from my father.
Just let it be the words for him, eventhough I know that he will not read this post, but I'm really touchful by myself when I'm writing this post.
Thank you for being my father since I was born and giving me so much affection until the way I am now.
I really appreciate and love all the things that you have done and given to me.
Also I hope that someday I can fulfill your dream to seeing me become a better person than you.
Eventhough I know it seems so very difficult, but I really hope that I can do that
I just want that I can still see you even until the time when I have to leave this world.
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