Have you known what is the reason of your birth ?
Do you know why did you born in this world ?
These kind of questions must be common questions that you ever heard from any motivator.
If you have found the answer, you must be very energetic to fight on your life.
Many years before and even sometimes at the moment, I still think about it.
Somehow I just confuse what is the reason of my existing in this world.
Because I feel that I don't really have a real meaning of myself.
I'm not a smart or clever person, and also I'm not a rich person who has a big income.
Also I don't have so many friends and rarely to have many precious memories with precious persons.
Sometimes I want to ask the god what is the reason that I'm still alive in this world, I don't know which aspect that can be a reason of my living.
I try to encourage myself to feel better.
Yes, on my mind I tried to answer all those questions to myself.
I said to my heart that it's not only a sadness that I got from my life, remember that I have so many things that can make me feel grateful that I can have a life.
I can taste so many delicious foods, drinking my favorite juice, enjoying football and motogp which are my favorite sports, watching a great movie, reading many stories books, go holiday to some beautiful places, know the affection of the parents, feel the beauty of falling in love, ever play with my friends and so many else that I may forget to mention.
All of those things I can get because I'm living.
So, there are lot of reasons to be happy that we're alive.
It's true on the other side life gave us so many hard time and terrible moments.
However the most important thing is our point of view of that hard time/moments.
We got bad things, felt hard moments, and experienced the bad time for a period.
Simply we thought that all those things is not useful at all in our life, except of giving us lot of troubles.
However all those things make us stronger than before.
Indeed, we become a better person because of all those things, since learning from our mistake is human's ability.
If I compare myself many years ago and at the moment, I can see that I have improved so much.
Maybe I have not been fully a great person, but at least I'm very far better than myself on the past.
Somehow I can see this is as a beauty of this life too :
"Improved and growing up".
At some time I ask myself to look back at my journey and said "that was a way that you have passed, all of things that happen during that time help you to have so many lessons and experience to make you become a better person, and now you must look the way in front of you, that's your future, you have to continue this journey in order to improve far better than at the moment".
Yes, I can see that lot of people really fight for their life, every persons have to face their problem in order to growing up.
Some people maybe said that life is flat and really boring.
But I realize that at this world, life give us so many many things that we can fight for, even I think that our time is not enough to fight for all of those things.
Life give us good things to make us smile and bad things for us to growing up, maybe it's the formula of this life.
"Never feel depressed about your life, be grateful that you are able to do the things that you dream of doing, and live everyday working towards them. That is the key to true happiness"
I just want to share this quote to lot of people.
It's not that I have fully implemented that quote to myself, in fact I still trying to 100% put that principle on myself.
One thing I know, this life is really full of stories, experiences, lessons and so many unexpected things that we can find.
Bad moments and Happy moments can be happened in our life.
Somehow I understand what is the reason why I still be alive in this world.
I always try to keep this principal on my life.
"Always giving your best despite of the result".
Well maybe at this time, I feel that my life is at bad condition, but i'm keeping alive in this world because there are still so many things that we can do.
Many lessons and experience that I still can get, many efforts that I can still give to fight for this life, and hopefully many happiness and many dreams that maybe still I can get
Regards
Happiness Source In This Life
All of the people in this world must be want to be happy in this life.
Yes as a human, we must be pursuiting happiness for ourself.
How can we get that happiness ?
A happy family, a financial freedom, a mutual love, a hobby, or anything else.
So many things that we want in order to feel happy in our life.
From all of those things, most of people think that money is the most important of all.
Because, with having a lot of money, there's a big chance that we can buy or do many things that we want.
It's natural if people think that money is important and can give us a lot happiness.
In fact,I also agree with that opinion.
I always think that being a person who has a lot of money will bring me a happiness.
In fact I realize that currently I often don't feel happy in my life because of my desire to achieve that goal.
My situation currently is still far away from the one that I want.
I always want to be a person who has a financial freedom, but in fact my financial situation is still far from that, or it can be said that it's still "nothing" compare to my dream.
Yes, everyday before I sleep and on my lonely time I'm always thinking about that and it might be erase a smile on myself.
For a lot of time, I'm very sure that money is a happiness source.
I think that by having a lot of money will make this world like a heaven, I can buy many things that I want, I can go holiday to every place that I dream, I can do many things that I like to, and maybe I will get so many appreciation by lot of people and may be can get more friends.
However my perspective about that is changed a little.
I see some cases that related to this topic.
A first example that I saw with my own eyes is a case that related to a job.
For all this time, I thought that the people who has a "not prospectable" job that can not earn lot of money will have a miserable life.
Because I think they will not have a great future with their current job, and also they work only to survive in this world, not to achieve their dream.
However I have a talk with the persons who worked as a courier and a driver.
Those 2 jobs can be said as a "low" job in my country ( I think you and lot of people will have the same opinion on me).
But these two people said that they enjoyed their life.
A courier told me that she enjoyed her usual activity, everyday she's packing package , sending to many address, she said that it's a challenging job.
Everyday she met with so many people and she gave her smile to other humans.
A driver told me that he enjoyed his life too, He liked driving a car, so this kind of job is really suit for him, everyday he met with so many kinds of people and he got so many stories, experience and different cultures to know, also he had a challenge to go to the place that he has not known before, He became more know about routes of way, and can see lot of new places.
What I got from all those 2 stories ?`
Actually my goal is still the same, I still want to have a lot of money, and in fact it doesn't make my standard become lower.
However what I can get from all those stories is this :
"Happiness is relative".
Yes for such a long time I think that happiness is like an absolute thing.
I believe that the people who don't have lot of money and get the job which the income only enough to survive in this world will have a difficulty to feel happy in this life.
However it maybe not as like as I thought.
The people who have worse situation than us somehow can be happier than us.
If I think from more cases, it's really true.
A person who has a car maybe less happier than a person who only has a bycycle, because a person who has a car always want a more luxurious car than (his/her) currently car while the other person is really like to riding bycycle and enjoying the nature.
A student who got 90 in the test can be less happier than a student who got 75 in the test, because the first student always want to get the 100 score in every test, while the other one is satisfied because they have given their best and can pass the exam.
A child who can entered a superior school can be not happier than a kid who can not get to school, because a kid who entered a superior scholl can not get many friends due the competition in that school while the second one can get so many friends with many kids that has a same situation with him.
Some people who can meet with their lover once a week are not very happy because they want to see with their lover everyday, while there are some people that can be happy by having a little chat with the person they love.
So what is my biggest point in this ?
Is money still important ? In fact money is very very important in this life, because we need it for our living.
Money is everything ? Well, I can say that money is 99% of everything ?
Money can buy happiness ? Money can help us a lot to get the happiness.
But at the end, the first happiness source is ourself.
We really have to fight and give our best to get our goal of this life.
Live Happily Ever After
Regards
Yes as a human, we must be pursuiting happiness for ourself.
How can we get that happiness ?
A happy family, a financial freedom, a mutual love, a hobby, or anything else.
So many things that we want in order to feel happy in our life.
From all of those things, most of people think that money is the most important of all.
Because, with having a lot of money, there's a big chance that we can buy or do many things that we want.
It's natural if people think that money is important and can give us a lot happiness.
In fact,I also agree with that opinion.
I always think that being a person who has a lot of money will bring me a happiness.
In fact I realize that currently I often don't feel happy in my life because of my desire to achieve that goal.
My situation currently is still far away from the one that I want.
I always want to be a person who has a financial freedom, but in fact my financial situation is still far from that, or it can be said that it's still "nothing" compare to my dream.
Yes, everyday before I sleep and on my lonely time I'm always thinking about that and it might be erase a smile on myself.
For a lot of time, I'm very sure that money is a happiness source.
I think that by having a lot of money will make this world like a heaven, I can buy many things that I want, I can go holiday to every place that I dream, I can do many things that I like to, and maybe I will get so many appreciation by lot of people and may be can get more friends.
However my perspective about that is changed a little.
I see some cases that related to this topic.
A first example that I saw with my own eyes is a case that related to a job.
For all this time, I thought that the people who has a "not prospectable" job that can not earn lot of money will have a miserable life.
Because I think they will not have a great future with their current job, and also they work only to survive in this world, not to achieve their dream.
However I have a talk with the persons who worked as a courier and a driver.
Those 2 jobs can be said as a "low" job in my country ( I think you and lot of people will have the same opinion on me).
But these two people said that they enjoyed their life.
A courier told me that she enjoyed her usual activity, everyday she's packing package , sending to many address, she said that it's a challenging job.
Everyday she met with so many people and she gave her smile to other humans.
A driver told me that he enjoyed his life too, He liked driving a car, so this kind of job is really suit for him, everyday he met with so many kinds of people and he got so many stories, experience and different cultures to know, also he had a challenge to go to the place that he has not known before, He became more know about routes of way, and can see lot of new places.
What I got from all those 2 stories ?`
Actually my goal is still the same, I still want to have a lot of money, and in fact it doesn't make my standard become lower.
However what I can get from all those stories is this :
"Happiness is relative".
Yes for such a long time I think that happiness is like an absolute thing.
I believe that the people who don't have lot of money and get the job which the income only enough to survive in this world will have a difficulty to feel happy in this life.
However it maybe not as like as I thought.
The people who have worse situation than us somehow can be happier than us.
If I think from more cases, it's really true.
A person who has a car maybe less happier than a person who only has a bycycle, because a person who has a car always want a more luxurious car than (his/her) currently car while the other person is really like to riding bycycle and enjoying the nature.
A student who got 90 in the test can be less happier than a student who got 75 in the test, because the first student always want to get the 100 score in every test, while the other one is satisfied because they have given their best and can pass the exam.
A child who can entered a superior school can be not happier than a kid who can not get to school, because a kid who entered a superior scholl can not get many friends due the competition in that school while the second one can get so many friends with many kids that has a same situation with him.
Some people who can meet with their lover once a week are not very happy because they want to see with their lover everyday, while there are some people that can be happy by having a little chat with the person they love.
So what is my biggest point in this ?
Is money still important ? In fact money is very very important in this life, because we need it for our living.
Money is everything ? Well, I can say that money is 99% of everything ?
Money can buy happiness ? Money can help us a lot to get the happiness.
But at the end, the first happiness source is ourself.
We really have to fight and give our best to get our goal of this life.
Live Happily Ever After
Regards
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