Do you ever see the person that really similiar to you ? The person who has 100% similiarity with you ?
I bet no one.
Yes every person have their own lifestyle, their own attitude, their own feeling, their own decision, and their own opinion.
For just a glance, maybe you will see 2 or more persons that have a similiarity, but for sure it won't be totally the same.
This difference is very normal, it is caused by the different situation, different case, or different condition.
There are so many people that have a lot of money and can buy everything they want, while there are some cases where many people really have a difficulty to get a money only to survive in this world.
There are so many people that can see their love everyday and spend so much time with their love, while some people really have a difficulty only to meet or see the face of the person they love.
There are so many people that have a really happy family and get so many affetion from their parents, while many people can't see their parent since they were born.
There are so many people that have a lot of precious people that really care for them, while some people live alone and don't have any friends or precious person that think about them.
From that different situation above, I ask this question :
Must all those people have a same lifestyle ?
Must all those people have a same opinion ?
Must all those people have a same decision ?
Of course not.
From the different situation that mentioned above, can you see that the difference of every person is a very normal thing ?
I'm sure that you can see it.
At my life, I see so many people that always thought their lifestyle is the best.
Sometimes I really want to say it :
Yes I admit, your lifestyle may be the best, BUT your lifestyle is the best lifestyle only for yourself.
You can't force other persons to have a same lifestyle like you.
There are so many cases that some people disrespect other person who has a different attitude from (him/her)self.
Those people will call this other person as a bad person, mock (him/her), and worst of all : influence other people to hate this other person by talk over (his/her) mistakes in the past.
I ask this "What is their fault" ?
Is their opinion a mistake ?
Is their opinion a crime ?
Of course not, why you have to go far that way ?
Why you started making this difference become a complicated thing ?
Do you think that you haven't make any mistake in the past ?
Without intend to insult other people especially for all the people who read this post,
I just want to say "Please respect other people's opinion"
There must be a reason behind their actions, their lifestyle, their attitude, thier point of view, their perspectives and their decisions.
You think that most people around you have a normal life and don't have very complicated problem.
But there are humans, sometimes they must pretend to be okay, or try hard to keep their smile to hide their big problem.
And sometimes they keep silent because there's already too much things in their mind.
There's a possibility that a person you know have a very complicated problem that you never ever expect.
We are all humans.
It's really our obigation to respect each other.
Regards
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