Today I found my old smartphone that I used 4 years ago.
I stopped using this phone that year because it had started to having a poor performance.
I tried to turn on this phone this day and on that phone , there's still some application that I used at the time I used this phone.
One of those applications is askfm.
You know that application right ? I'm sure you know.
I opened that application and I saw there were some questions that have been given to me.
I read those questions and I found lot of interested questions.
Since I didn't play askfm again and this app is not trending again, I think it's good to write the answer on this site instead.
Here they are :
1.
Anon : You seems very busy at this time yeah ?
Me : I'm so busy fighting against this world.
2.
Anon : What do you gonna treat your friends on your birthday ?
Me : Actually I never treat my friends on my birthday. Am I greedy ? You’re free to have an opinion, but I have my own reason. I never celebrate my birthday because I don’t really like birthday, in fact it can be said that I hate it. Because it indicates that I’m growing older and that means my time to live in this world become more less. Also the biggest burden about it that we’re ran out of time to get our goal to become successful person in ideal age, whenever my birthday has come the burden is getting bigger to myself, that’s why I don’t like birthday, somehow I’m confused how can I celebrate and spending money for a day that I even hate it.
3.
Anon : What do you think about the close friendship between boy and girl ?
Me : I think sometimes a friendship between two persons who have different gender is more complicated than the friendship between two persons who have same gender. From the outside I believe that. It's true that there are lot of friendship between boy and girl even me myself has that kind of friendship. But it's true that this friendship can be like lot of people said. If the friendship appears on a group and involves many other persons, maybe it's easy. But if the friendship only involve one boy and one girl, I think somehow it can be more complicated than we think. Because there's a possibility that love feeling will appear inside that friendship and somehow it can give a big change of that friendship. More over, let it said that there's no love feeling that appear on that friendship, but there's still one more case of it, if one of that person finally has (his/her) love, there's a chance that the relation of the friendship can be a little reduce and somehow we can feel sad about that change. But there's only a possibility, in some people the friendship between two genders can be still very fun despite of those possibilities, I also has this kind of friendship and I also really like it because it's very fun and interesting.
4.
Anon : What will you do if your friend has a fight with (his/her) love ?
Me : I will not do anything, their problem is not related to me, that is their privacy thing, I will only give an advice if my friend ask for my advice and I know the good advice.
5.
Anon : What do you think if there's someone who isn't close and never talk to you suddenly chat you ?
Me : Maybe it's because there's something that they want.
6.
Anon : Do you prefer live your daily life alone or with someone ?
Me : Depend on who is the person that I spend my daily life with. I lived most of my life alone since 4 years ago and it’s lonely I said. Commonly we must think that it's always better to have someone to live with. I also think that it’s better to have someone that can be our friend to spend most of our time rather than be alone, because with that we won’t feel lonely and be happy because we have someone to talk and have good memory. However I also say that it’s better to live alone rather than live with a person who is very incompatible with our character. By a chance, I ever lived with someone for 8 months, I spend most of my time with him and it didn’t run very well. Two persons who have strong characters but also very contrary people, even though I tried to appreciate and get over the difference but it still made many very complicated time and moments. Now I’m living alone and I feel that my life become more easy and simple rather than living with him. It’s true that as a social creature we need other person to spend our time with, but not every person can be a person to fill our daily deep life, there are some persons that can be our friend but can not be our best friend or any other special relation. Living alone is quite sad maybe but living with wrong person is worse than living alone.
7.
Anon : What is the saddest part of loving someone ?
Me : Hmm, generally it must be when you loved someone, but (he/she) didn't love you back. However it can be much deeper than that. When you're loving someone but you're very far from (him/her) because there's no space for you to come closer into (his/her) side. All you can do is seeing (his/her) smile from a distance, you can not have a good relation with the person you love and can not have a time with (his/her) even only once. I think it can be very hurt. Love is like that , sometimes it lasts in love, sometimes it hurts instead.
8.
Anon : If you're asked to sing a song to the most precious person in your life, what song that will you choose ? and to who that you will that song :D ?
Me : Avici - The Night , It's interesting to sing one of my favourite song to my special person.
9.
Anon : What is your opinion about many girls who always want to wear make up every single day ?
Me : They want to make their face prettier, maybe because they think it's important. It's their preference and habit after all. Actually I see that as a make sense thing. Maybe one of the reason of wearing make up is to have good social life. Believe or not, a girl who has a pretty face will get more respect and can have big chance to get more friends.
10.
Anon : I'm confuse. Why my life is so different from my sister ? even we are siblings ?
Me : Every person has so much differences : difference character, difference situation, different condition and so many else, it's very normal to has a different life. I have a twin and our way of life is very different. We can not have a totally same life with other person.
11.
Anon : Do you love your bff ? Pap with your best friend forever !
Me : I don't have one.
12.
Anon : What is your favourite song to be listed on your wedding day ?
Me : wohoo what a question lol. If in the future I can have a chance to get married maybe I will choose Perfect - Ed Sheeran as my wedding song, the lyrics is so deep and beautiful. I really like that song.
13.
Anon : I already had a girlfriend, but lot of my friends said that she's not pretty enough and there's lot of girls that's prettier than my gf, what do you think about it ?
Me : In my opinion you don't really need to very listen what other people said. She doesn't need to be looked beautiful in everyone's eyes. She only need to be looked beautiful in your eyes. it's true that there are lot of girls who have prettier face than your girlfriend but your girlfriend will be the most beautiful person in your eyes if you truly love her.
14.
Anon : If Doraemon really exist, what will you ask to him ?
Me : Lot of thing, if Doraemon exist, I can make my world feels like a heaven.
15.
Anon : How much the money that you will think will make your life become great ?
Me : Human is a creature that never feel satisfied. If you ask me how much the money that we want, that I will ask you first : what is the highest number in this world ?
16.
Anon : I want to have a romantic dinner with my girlfriend, can you give me a recommend place, any place that romantic and very beautiful ? It's okay if it's little expensive, and can you tell me what's good in that place ?
Me : SKYE, Sofia The Gunawarman, Cafe Hotel Mulia Senayan Jakarta. I don't know the taste of their foods and whether those places are good or not. I just know all those places by seeing people's posts on instagram, I haven't ever gone to a place like that.
17.
Anon : I'm looking a person who can do anything, am i dreaming ?
Me : There's no such thing as a perfect person in this world.
18.
Anon : What is the best way to move on ?
Me : I don’t really know the best answer, but maybe the best way is “move to”
19.
Anon : Hi, I'm a girl and I asked many advise of this life from many boys, but all those advises are not suitable to me, are boys really can not give advise to girls ?
Me : I don't know what advise that you got, so I can not say surely. However you have to know that the way of life between man and woman is so much different.
20.
Anon : Do you miss high school ?
Me : At the beginning of my college time, I very missed it. But now I don’t really missing it. Maybe because it has been a long time and I have forgot my time on high school. One thing for sure, I don’t miss some teachers on my high school. After I remember what is my teachers like and comparing with my experiences in this real life , I feel disgusted with some teachers. My history teacher and my physics teacher in 10th grade, I have no respect to them as a person now.
21.
Anon : I'm really sad, why is problem keep on appearing in my life. When is the time my life will free from problems ?
Me : I ever feel that :'( When I always sad whenever any problem appeared. But life is like that, it always gave us some troubles in order to make us a better person. What we have to do is doing our best. I admit it that life has so many ways to play with our feeling, sometimes it can use such a cruel things.
22.
Anon : Why do you like watching football ?
Me : I don’t know, there’s no specific reason. I start to like football since 2006, and it still continued until now. Actually I rarely watching football due of my time and the match that held on the midnight on Indonesian time, but I always follow the latest result, news, highlights and everything about international football. To be honest , I’m thankful that I can be a football fan. It’s one of my part in my life.
23.
Anon : What will you if someone offer you to see devil or something else like that. Will you accept it ?
Me : Nope, I won't have any business with someone like that. That's really freak person. Instead of trying to see the devil , it's better to try to become a better person who believe in god. I won't try any stupid things like that.
24.
Anon : What do you think about LDR ? Do you like it ?
Me : I don’t really like LDR, because I believe distance can change the relation with other persons. In my life I have so much difficult times because of distance. I still can hold up, if I can have a time with a person I love although only once every 1 or 2 months, but being far war away and can not spend a time with a girl I love is such a sad thing, I don’t want to feel that sadness again. However having LDR can give you more happiness feeling when you finally can have a chance to have a time with a person you love.
25.
Anon : Do you believe in heaven ?
Me : Yes I do.
26.
Anon : What's ability that you really want ?
Me : The ability to control my emotion and feeling. At first I thought that it's a simple thing and then I realize that it's such really a difficult thing.
That's all the questions that I think is interesting.
Actually I don't answer all questions that appeared on my askfm, I just choose only good questions, and didn't answer privacy or stupid questions.
That’s why most of my answers are long answers in spite of the questions are very short.
I know that maybe some of my answers will get disagreement from many people, however all that answers are just my own opinions.
I just answered all the questions with my objective view and based on my experience in my life. Many people will have different opinions in many questions maybe, but it’s normal after all those are my own opinion.
But, It's really interesting to answering that good questions, maybe you can try to answer all that questions too :)
Regards
